Jealousy, part two

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Just to follow up with this. I have noticed that many of your answers are about your partner being jealous and it being a turn-on to you. But what about your own jealousy? That was more what I was referring to. I'll give you an example of how my jealousy was not only a turn-on but it has helped me grow and become more secure in my marraige. My husband is attractive and charming and constantly draws women to him. I was so jealous about it for awhile worrying about him finding another woman he prefered over me. I had to really explore my own emotions and what I ultimately discovered was that if my relationship was meant to be I didn't have to worry about these external issues. By focusing on the negative part of my jealousy I was not working on the love that is needed to nurture any relationship. So NOW, I actually get quite turned on when other women flirt with my husband because I truly believe that he loves me and I can think to myself "guess what ladies, he's all mine" :) Not to mention, it sure gives my hubby a little boost :)