Worst Valentine's

@thuhuong (823)
United States
February 8, 2010 1:53pm CST
So Valentine's coming up but instead of thinking about the good things that will come, can you remember any bad Valentine's? My worst Valentine's happened about 8 years ago when I was going to surprise a male friend of mine on Navy Pier to watch the fireworks but he told me that there was a girl he wanted to talk to so I kept my mouth shut and suffered in silence as I tried to keep myself busy from thinking of what a dreadful day it's going to be.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
8 Feb 10
Last year, by far. I've had lots of Valentine's when I was single or things just didn't go right, but last year was the worst. My ten-year relationship was still in the process of ending, at the time. In a way, it still is, because we haven't technically gotten the legal divorce part done yet. But last year during Valentine's we were still living in the same apartment but had already decided to split, so it was both very awkward and very depressing.
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@thuhuong (823)
• United States
8 Feb 10
Wow, that is a bit harsh. Did you go out with the gals or do you have kids already that you guys just hoovered not thinking about it?
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
8 Feb 10
We have a son, and he has epilepsy, so we didn't have a lot of child care options. We wound up eating fast food and sitting around trying to pretend it was an ordinary day, for the most part.
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@thuhuong (823)
• United States
9 Feb 10
Well, that's kind of a bummer valentine's indeed. Thanks so much for sharing lecanis!
@esjosh (912)
• India
9 Feb 10
It is most pain full when "Your love don't love you and tells you" But it is even more painful when "Your love may love you but never tells you" You are lucky dear that he has told you. So that you came to know the truth.
@thuhuong (823)
• United States
9 Feb 10
The truth hurts though doesn't it? But you're right, better to have love than to not love at all. :)
@thuhuong (823)
• United States
18 Feb 10
You know I'm going to take the person because the pain comes with in wrapped around skin and bones bearable to kiss
@esjosh (912)
• India
10 Feb 10
In life every one is going to hurt sooner or later, now you have to decide what is more important, the pain or the person.!!!!!
@illfavors (590)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I have never really had a bad Valentines day. I guess because I really don't pay attention to it as a holiday. To me it's just another day.
@thuhuong (823)
• United States
9 Feb 10
If there's no significance I guess there won't be any blues. I guess it's all about how you see it huh?
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Feb 10
thuuong hi my worst valentine day ever was three or four years ago when I woke with tremendous cramps and bleeding diarrhea and was so sick I went to my doctor who paid for a cab to get me to the ER.there they admitted me and I spent four days bleeding, and sick and had all sorts of tests. finally after four blood transfusions the bleedingstopped. all from some blackberries I had ate. the seeds stuck in a diverticulie in my colon and nicked a blood vessel. the moral to this is for people with diverticulitis do not eat berries with s eeds, do not eat them at all. very dangerous. you could conceivably die from that.
@thuhuong (823)
• United States
9 Feb 10
Oh Hatley, I just want to hug you! But I'm so glad you're alive as well, that has got to be horrible. I'm always learning something from you. Thanks so much for sharing your worst valentine with me :)
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
10 Feb 10
My worst Valentines Day was like a few years ago, before I met my husband and all. I was in a relationship but the guy that I was dating could not find any way to come into town so we could be together. But, my friend she felt so sorry for me in being all alone on Valentines Day that she decided to spend the day with me and we'd watch movies and everything. She was with someone at the time, but she said she had figured that he wouldn't take her anywhere or anything like that, being that he's not the guy to do that. So I was really excited that we'd be hanging out and watching movies and stuff at least. But anyways, come to find out that he had a surprise for her and she decided to spend the time with him on Valentines Day, and I was basically left all alone, to cook and watch movies alone. It kind of was not fun at all. I just wound up going to bed early that day, instead of watching movies. In the end she felt bad for leaving me alone when we had planned something.
@thuhuong (823)
• United States
10 Feb 10
What an awesome friend! You know what, it didn't turn out bad at all because at least someone thought of you. I'm sorry that your guy friend couldn't make it. Did he get to come over afterward and make it up? Overall, I believe you were lucky to have your friend at least stood by you for a moment and held you as well.
@thuhuong (823)
• United States
18 Feb 10
Wow, that's awful, well, happy be-lated Valentine's! LOL at least here on mylot we don't forget.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
12 Feb 10
I do agree with you that at least she was being considerate and was there for the short time. So I don't know, I guess it wasn't that bad after all, because I was alone. Nope, actually the guy that I was with at the time, did not make up for not being around on Valentines Day. I guess that is what made that day even worse. I'm not sure.
• India
9 Feb 10
Its indeed a bad day for thuhong, but however she should have known her male friend well before she decided to meet him on that lovers day. A minimum qualification for a lover is the simple dedication to each other after all is the love is nothing but confidence one should have in his/her partner. One should share each others likes and hobbies and should be in constant contact with each other. Any way try to forget that dreadful day thuhong. Mogili_Pasula
@thuhuong (823)
• United States
9 Feb 10
Oh, don't worry. I'm way over that. I see clearly and it is lessons like that that makes you understand life. Crushes have their moments but I like to think now that it was his loss :P I'm am happily married and do not chase foolish dreams as before. Thanks for the discussion.