Who is importanter for you, your love or your family?

I think both importance can't be compare if it is true love for your lover as family has it's own place & lifepartner has it own, Our family in which we ae born & brought up,they loved us taken care of us,& about lover we are going to share our rest of life with him, he understand us,but it does not mean that we don't need family,we always like emotional support of our family even if we are married.

For me, I already married, so I think my lover now is my family. They are both important in my life, I can't give up anyone of them. But they sometime will have differnt opipion, I just support which side is right. And I love to be a bridage to make them as the family!

It depends. I think for the most part, It's supposed to be your spouse or maybe girlfriend, like in my case. But when that loved one doesn't show that he or she loves you more than her family, then what. I really believe my girlfriend's family is more important to her than me. The fact that she's just my girlfriend (we boght a house together years ago) but says she doesn't want to get married, and she knows I've never been married before kind of says something. Yet she does do things that shows she cares; bringing things from the grocery store she knows I like. Cooking meals, even though her kids have moved out. I put her before my family in 2008 when I lost my job and couldn't buy any Christmas presents - except for her. To me, it just comes natural.