i do not have any self confident....
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14460)
Indonesia
February 8, 2010 9:05pm CST
When i am standing with my friends which is tall, pretty, smart, i feel like i lost my confident. Everybody surround us would just pay attention to her...uh-huh...just wanna get out from that situation. do you feel the same way too?
7 responses
@Allie_xoxo (1063)
• Canada
9 Feb 10
You think your friends are great, and they probably really really are, but part of their greatness is in picking someone like you to be their friend.
Afterall, they wouldnt be friends with anyone who wasn't just as great would they?
@mero026 (33)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
Never lose confident just to someone whom you think better than you are; all of us has distinct talent, sense and style. Just don't be afraid to start a word, know whose your talking with, know how to profile or know what the group have in common, then start there; speak up! be smart, feel good, look good and be articulate the best that you can. You're beautiful.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
9 Feb 10
i guess u should start looking for more 'normal' people as friends and be around them ..
there is this girl i know, she is not attractive at all and at this restaurant they only had 'all male' waiter and were looking for interested 'female' staff ... she tried ..
she got the job .. and believe it or not, she was treated almost like a 'princess' by those in the management, and she got promoted into supervisory level ..
so dear .. dont worry, u are special for some people, just that u have not found them
cheers
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
In my case. I dont really feel so bad especially when it comes to comparing ourselves physically with other people not because I think I'm pretty too but I just know that there are a lot of good things in me that other people dont have. As the song says, what makes you different, makes you beautiful. I just think that we are beautiful in our own little ways. It doesn't matter if you have white skin or brown skin, tall or short. Just be confident about yourself. =)
@glaiz_9 (366)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
You should never, never ever look down on yourself.
I don't think I'm pretty like actresses do but when I'm in that situation I would not cower. You deserve praise too in your own special way.
Even if others tell you a lot of negative things don't let it affect you rather find your positive trait and exploit it.
If you're not really pretty you can improve it by being confident and how you carry yourself. In that way you can be pretty too.
When it comes to be being smart, sometimes just working hard is enough and much more praise worthy.
@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Feb 10
Don't be. You may not know this but you are God's special creation and you are unique. Feel proud and happy that even though we are not too pretty or smart, we should be grateful that we have complete body parts that can assist us in our daily functions without being ashame of it
@shan0822 (433)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I'm a people have no selfconfidence just like you! I always though what I'm doing is kind crab, I'm not pretty and smart. I always let my head down when teacher ask some questions.
Now I kind more think possivtive way, I just tell myself that I'm a nice person who have warm heart and I have a great family, some people is pretty and smart but they just use it wrong way. Just though your good spot! Don't be shame when you face yourself, first you must have confident face yourself, then to other people.
Hope help for you!