am i a losser?

India
February 9, 2010 12:28am CST
i was in love with a girl for past one year....she too responded me well .......but before a week she broke up with me and started dating an another rich guy...... iam not able to forget her but still i dont want to waste my time on her .......... MY FIRST LOVE IS A FAILURE WAT SHOULD I DO? WAT ABOUT YOUR FIRST LOVE?
6 responses
@magic9 (980)
• China
9 Feb 10
you are not a loser. there is no winner or loser as to love issue. There is only one fits you or not fits you. I suggest that you change your way of thinking. Maybe she thinks him better suit her after all he is rich, he can give her sense of safety.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
Well I can say that your a winner.. all things works for our good. God permitted that thing to happen to make you see that the one you love is not worthy for your love. Just wait friend, someone will come and she will love you the way you are and not because of what you have and what you can do.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
..hi.. love or relationships don't always end happily.. and that's a bitter reality that we have to accept.. but hey, cheer up.. its not onyl you who experienced that.. there are only rare number of people who ended up with their first loves so don't hold your pain so much.. although it is hard for you right now, but don't let yourself be overcomed by that pain.. I know its so easy to say forget her but its the hardest thing to do when the pain is still fresh so I'd say that, give yourself a break.. cry if you want but see to it that you won't cry for the same reasons again.. crying isn't a sign of weakness.. for me, crying is a way of letting go of the past and after drying your tears, it is the time to move on and face life once again.. she is not meant for you.. later, you will find the person who will love you more than your fisrt love.. and believe me, love is sweeter the second time around.. first relationships are usually the trial and error.. and your first experience should have taught you a lesson so that next time, you know what to do.. for now, like what I've said, give yourself a break.. cry if you mus but don't you quit.. life is still beautiful my dear.. if you ex can find someone new, then definitely, you can somebody else better also..
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
that is why called your first love because for sure you'll gonna have another one. its not always a failure though coz mine is a success so far. my husband is my first and last love. we are bestfriends and really got along well. but we do not have a perfect relationship though, coz nothing is perfect on earth. struggles and problems always make us stronger. its not fair to judge your ex GF though, it just show that money is more important to her if thats the case. do not worry for you can always have another love. maybe your second and last love. good luck!
@vinzzy (11)
• India
9 Feb 10
.....love cOMES today goes tomo ya.... leave her ..there is an angel born for every one..... i pray to god tat u should meet ur perfect match soon..... even my first love is a failure.....loss for her only leave it LIVE IT
@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
9 Feb 10
You are gainer because you figure out the real character before marriage. It is success not a failure. My first love is unexplored. Love remain love in mind and that fear to come out from mind.