can you marry some holder than you????
By vorovo
@vorovo (67)
Nigeria
February 9, 2010 12:30am CST
i have a friend, he is just 25years and he has a girl friend who is 36years,the woman has given birth to 4 children,she is a divorcee, while my firned is yet to give birth to any child,
now they are both deeply in love and this woman has been of great help to my friend, expecially financially,
even the woman's family are not really in support of there relationship, but both os them are claiming to be deeply in love, what would you advice my friend to do,
is it safe for hime???? do you think the relationship can really work/last?????
if you a family member of each of them what would you advice them to do,
2 responses
@valkerion (1827)
• United Kingdom
9 Feb 10
Well it sounds weird doesn't it ? But it has never happen to me, to fall in love with a woman 10 years older than me so I can't say for sure.
I will say the classics: If they love each other then noone should tell them to do otherwise than what their heart says.
But still, she got 4 kids already and she is 10 years older than him. She is doing fine but what about him? Is he really in love or do the financial hel pyou mentioned pushed him to do so ?
@vorovo (67)
• Nigeria
9 Feb 10
wierd you say??? same way i felt when i first heard about it, the woman is divorsed, but the boy is never married,
may be it could be the financial benefit that is holding the boy down ,
but can you because of money do such thing???
i really appreciate your response
@valkerion (1827)
• United Kingdom
9 Feb 10
Your friend is the boy right??
DO you think he is the kind of person that is going to act like he is in love in order to have the financial benefits???
PS. No problem at all! :)
@WiseReptiles (854)
• United States
9 Feb 10
As long as the are both old enough to make their own decisions and are happy with each other than nobody has a right to judge their relationship. I know I said nobody has a right to judge them but that does not mean others will not judge them because of the age difference. My wife and I have an age difference between us but we have been supported by friends and family since the day we met.
@WiseReptiles (854)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I believe her family will come around and should support her either way and let her know that they are behind her 100% with whatever choice she makes in her life
