I Saw Our Boss Going Out With Our HR-Head!

I guess I'm kinda mean to say this, but maybe the relationship they have was founded on the fact that one or both of them was going to benefit from it (ie, promotion, etc.) and not exactly because they love each other. Maybe they are attracted, but well... I might get a lot of flak about my answer. Can't help but think that way, though, because I've seen stuff like that happen in a former workplace. But who knows? Maybe there are feelings involved. Well, best not to be involved there, right?

That has to be really uncomfortable. I remember in highschool, the baseball coach was my weight training teacher, he was a total perv. As one of maybe ten or fifteen girls in the school who took weight trianing it was really apparent how much of a skeeze he was. He used to ogle to cheerleasers at the baseball games, and there were substantiated rumors that he bought the baseball team alchohol. I met his wife at a night game towards the end of the season in my junior year. A few months later while I was at work waiting tables at a restraunt near my house he walks in with some woman and the hostess sat him in my section! I acted like I didn't know who he was because it was soo disgusting, he was flirting with her, touching her leg and all that stuff. I came around to give hin the check and he made some jerky comment about how my service stunk, so I told him to his face that if I knew how to get a hold of his wife I would let her know he stopped by my job with someone who definitely wasn't his sister. He left the biggest tip I ever got working that job, like he was trying to pay for my silence. Both my parents were teachers for the same school district, so he knew I knew how to track him down. I never said anything to any authority figures, because I needed a passing grade, so it was like one of those catch 22 situations you see in the movies. I did tell all my friends though. One of the guys I knew on the baseball team told me that it was old news, everyone already knew Hodges was a dog. I have no idea why people cheat, but it is disguting.

hello sexyposh!wow! that's a big scoop! reminds me of one of our prof in college & our director! hehe i also saw them in a convenient store in the middle of the night! i was really shocked seeing them and sweet to each other knowing that they are both married... but anyway, back to your topic, i guess some married people cheats because they are not contented with their partners? or there's something wrong going on with their relationship with their partners...something like that. or maybe, they are just so weak with the temptation and satan is working well in them... i guess older men choose the younger one because it will give us good feelings? hehe and those younger women who falls for these older men, maybe find security with them... i don't like to judge your boss & your hr hear since i don't really know them and i know they have their own reasons as to why they do that...but whatever it is, i can't tolerate this kind of relationship. well it doesn't matter if the guy is too old for the girl...but the problem is that they are both committed. and by all means, they are hurting their respective partners with what they are doing.

That is no longer a ordinary scenario office liaison really happen and those involves most of the time are secretarial and bosses , from the top to the middle up to the subordinates as they have a closer contact everyday so the relationship some fling develop into a serious one. So the other is a married one which probably in appropriate and could be the cause of gossip grape vine in the office since lot of eyes are stalking on them which could lead to either termination or suspension if the lawful partner caught them on the act. Married people cheat for adventure and to try if their looks still work to magnetize the other person especially the single one is an added boast to their appeal and sometimes due to their nature being womanizer and so on it is already in their genes they have less control for temptation.

Before I answer you question, I would like to ask you one of my own. Will you tell on your boss or not? Why do people cheat? There are many reasons. In this case, maybe your boss does not really like his wife anymore or is facing midlife crisis and by having an affair he gets some satisfaction in his life. As for her, she might just want to advance quickly up the corporate ladder, or maybe just has something for men in power. Either way, they both have other parties to consider (him a wife and kids, and her a boyfriend), so this makes it a problem, even if they do truly love each other. I am very interested in hearing how you will deal with the situation.

This type of relationships may leave a bad taste in the mouth but it's happening everywhere. I don't have anything against this people because they're doing it at their own risk or should i say benefit? But then again these type of people should be matured enough to know what's bad or good for them. I can just wish them good luck since i'm pretty sure they have thinking minds and they know the difference between what's right and what's wrong, what's practical and what's not. At the end of the day, they are the ones who will face the consequences of their actions.

For some reasons most younger women tend to fall in love with mature man while mature man tend to fall in love with younger ones. Younger ones are incline of more sensible discussion, responsible behavior and extra loving care while mature man are incline of ego tripping of getting a girl much younger than them; they would love to feel youthful aging. We should not condemn a cheating spouse because there's plenty of reason why they have done it; to think we are now in a modern age when cheating is becoming just a normal act. I don't want to sound too liberated on this, bottom line is there just only human. when one is feeling a victim i can say hurting is just a phasing in our life.

That's pretty scandalous and I think is rather bad. I mean, since one is attached and the other is married, that can never be good, but not in my place to say though. Anyway, to answer your question, I think some people cheat maybe because of their own erratic nature, or they are having problems at home, that they have to resort to cheating. Some are not able to speak up, and hence they do that.

People cheat because they can get away with it. However, no matter how you feel about their affair, the fact remains it is none of your business. They are 2 consenting adults, well aware of the consequences of their actions should they get caught.