complicated relationships

One thing is certain, don't expect marriage to make the complications go away. Give him the chance to "uncomplicate" things, and don't be afraid to let him know what it is that is bothering you. Whatever you do, don't let your love for him blind you to the guy he really is and the relationship that really exists between the two of you.

The rule is, if you think that you suffer more heartache and pain than being happy with him, it is better to end the relationship. If you said that you love him so much, and yet there are so many complications and you are not happy about it, then he doesn't deserve you. Your wasting your love for him, there maybe someone who will love you back, with the same intense feeling you have. Good luck!