do you prefer to be in a relationship or being single?
By boomshakala
@boomshakala (13)
Philippines
February 9, 2010 8:29am CST
hi guys! please weigh down the disadvantages and advantages of the different status. i believe most people have different preferences, i would like to hear yours... thanks!
8 responses
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
9 Feb 10
i'm in a long term relationship, that is not good. i'm itiching for freedom, and not having to say where i'm going or be accussed of doing something i'm not.
i being single can be lonely at times but, when something happens and u don't have anyone to shear it with.
@udischas84 (330)
• United States
9 Feb 10
Both have their pros and cons. I like the feeling of having one person that you care for and care for you back. I like that no matter what, you can depend on them and love them with your whole heart because you know they feel the same. That would be the relationship type. As for being single, I love feeling that there are alot of guys out there that want to go out with me. I wouldn't go out with all of them, but just the feeling of being desired. I love attention haha.
@cbjones (1147)
• United States
9 Feb 10
At this point and time, I prefer to be a single man. I'm a rolling stone. I do my own thing. Not really in the mindset to have a co-op life with anyone at this point. I'm sure I'll see a lot of potential wifes when summer rolls around, but I'll try to resist the temptation.
@Flirtykumquat (927)
• United States
9 Feb 10
That is a hard question to answer. I started having long relationships when I was about 17. I was always with someone. I am 23 now and currently single. It is nice sometimes because you don't have anyone holding you down. I do have a male friend though that is always at my place and we sleep with each other each night and the fact that he is there sometimes I feel better. The nights that he isn't there I can't sleep good and I feel like I need someone next to me. Maybe it is my own insecurities but I like being in a relationship..
@pentagan12 (757)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
I am currently in a relationship and longing to be always in a relationship. I am happy with my status right now and i am happy with my boyfriend though we sometimes argue with each other because of some petty things. I am scared of being alone so definitely, I wouldn't want to be single. I always want to be with someone. My boyfriend and I are together for more than 6 years now and still counting. I am happy about it. I even wish that we will already go to the next step which is marriage soon.
@heroshen (146)
• Reunion
9 Feb 10
single.
been carefree. you dun have to headache on where to go for valentine date,buy what gift or eat what.
Apply to festive or birthday too. example christmas/new year count down or gf's birthday.
The disadvantage
lonely,you cant share your happiness or sadness to her.
she is not there for you when you needed someone.