Should I marry one having a good economic condition or just loving me so much??

@pujiao (39)
China
February 9, 2010 8:22pm CST
In everyday life, it's not so perfect and it can not fulfill our expectations,maybe I am so greedy.but I hope that I can have a better life,live better than now.I my job and depend on myself now.Economic conditons are significant in many ways, if I marry a poor man, after marrige I will have to work hard and make more money for housing loan,supportting our parents and maybe we will have baby,then more money should pay for raising it,then life will become hard.I like living in a easy way,sometimes I even think living alone is more comfortable,then marrige can bring nothing petty in my life.If I can have both love and money and it will be so great.
5 responses
@Galena (9110)
10 Feb 10
you should marry someone who you love. if you marry someone well off but without love between you, you will have a comfortable life, but loveless. if you marry someone you love, but don't have much money, you may struggle from time to time financially, but you'll have each others support and love. love is worth more than money. we don't have a lot of money. we get by okay most of the time, but sometimes we struggle. but we have each other. I wouldn't swap that for all the money I could spend. if I didn't have him then the money wouldn't make me happy.
@pujiao (39)
• China
11 Feb 10
Thanks for your response!yes,you are right, we can't buy love with money.
@shan0822 (433)
• United States
10 Feb 10
I think Love is the only option to marry. I will never marry a man have lots money but I don't love him. I thinkI would love to work hard with my partner. It's the happness just have lover live together with you! It's a sad life live around with some one you don't love!
@pujiao (39)
• China
10 Feb 10
I am so selfish,I don't even know if I love my boyfriend and I don't care,I just care about if he loves me.when I was in collage,I really knew I would marry someone I love,but the reality changes my opinions.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
12 Feb 10
Always marry in my opinion for love. Money will not make you happy. You don't curl up with money at night. The economy will always rise and fall, better not to let your heart get so caught up in $. Love who you love, don't love their pocketbook.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Well I think you should consider both of that thing. In our current econonoc situation we should be prepared before we marry someone or else we will suffer a lot of financial problems after getting married.
• China
11 Feb 10
frankly, i am agree with you.i don't want to change the way of my life now, even sometimes i want to get marriage. but can i say, both of love and the good economic conditions can keep balance, i mean not very well off,but love more