Do you check your husband/wife's cellphone?

HI Dencher..... I don't think that we have to check a cellphone. of our partner..... from my point of view..... u r in relation.... when u have a trust on ur partner.... If there is no trust.... there is no relation.... U knw what the relation is stand on ur trust.....if hve no trust there is no meaning of relation

I dont have a husband or boyfriend, but if I did I would not check his cell phone. That is beyone intrusive and even if I were suspicious I would not look at his cell phone because I might be looking at things too closely and accuse him of something that he hasnt done. I would confront him if I was thinking he had done something and apologize if I was wrong. I dont think very important matters need to be danced around. Get to the point and fix the problem.

I think.I don't need to check my Husband's cellphone but there is no problem when we open cellphone each other.I often use his cellphone.I believe him that there is nothing to hide from me.

I have checked my husbands cell phone and I did find texts from a girl at work saying how much she depended on him and such things like that. I was really mad and made him quit that job so he would not be around her. I don't know if he cheated or not. At that time we were having a hard time in our marriage and he had decided he wanted to walk out but we had just had a baby and he was depressed in his own life. He travels for work and misses out on alot. But that is no excuse. I don't check anymore. I have to tr to trust him again and I do ask questions. Things seem to be better.