How do i know if she loves me?
By jamaiyi
@jamaiyi (66)
Singapore
February 10, 2010 3:36pm CST
I am in a relationship with this girl. I love are so dearly, but i realised she still visits her ex-boyfriend. Although she says she nolonger has feelings for him and the reason she visits his house is to see her friend who his ironically his sister. I don't know if this girl truelly loves me? because if she did she wud not spend some weekends at his place.
6 responses
@kaylayoe (293)
• United States
10 Feb 10
Maybe you need to sit down and tell her exactly how you feel. From my experiences, communication usually helps. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and we talk everything out. I mean maybe if you told your girlfriend how you feel she would have the friend stay at her place instead of going to hers. If something bothers me or my boyfriend we tell each other and do something about it to compromise for each other. Good Luck! =]
@kaylayoe (293)
• United States
10 Feb 10
Well, at first is was difficult because we didn't know how to act with each other. We fought quite a bit but now were perfect. We spend every day together. I love him so much. It's 3 years and counting. We talk about everything. We have no secrets and act pretty much like a married couple!
@yitta_c (2)
• China
11 Feb 10
communication is important for your girlfriend and you.Dont think all the things at bad way.Maybe she is really meet her best friend.here is another opinion that if you love her ,you should like her friends,at least you may get along with them.so you can try to visit her friend with her,or you can have a party with her friends.
@gerry101 (229)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Hi Jamaiyi,
I know exactly how you feel. I want to ask you if that friend of hers living in her ex house is her bestfriend? If it is her bestfriend then you must understand why she spends alot visiting her. I don't like the idea of her spending weekends at his place too. You must talk to her and tell her how you feel towards her and how you feel about this situation. Then after when everything is said and done and she still continues to do that then you must trust her. Win her total affection. Get to know what she likes to do and do it with her. Learn to listen to her when she has a problem or she wants to talk about things, be there for her. Maybe the reason why she goes to see her friend alot because as you probably already know by now that women loves to talk and they can talk for hours. They talk about problems, life etc. Typical women loves to go shopping or window shopping. Go with her. Let your appreciation be verbally known to her. Best of wishes in your relationship.
@thunderbala (748)
• India
15 Feb 10
She may be in some problem i guess.. try to talk with her and know whats the problem compromise certain things it would really make you lead a happy life...
@Adam2010 (29)
• China
11 Feb 10
dude .this is a big question. ha.
well ,i think ,if a girl who fall in love with a guy .she will care his mind and want to give .she should keep distace to her ex-boyfriend.
in my counry there is a sentece like this :melon is not sweet when melon have not ripe .
Do not make you sore and do not let the girl get much more.
Make your deside.
