what will you do when someone done you an injustice
By Greentea812
@Greentea812 (133)
China
February 11, 2010 1:16am CST
Hi Mylotings,I know everybody have such experience that be treated unfairly,we got angry with boiled blood,threw a tantrum,we both know all of these are useless for the result,hwo to demonstrate yourself to others when you are treated unfairly,what do you think is most efficient?
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6 responses
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
I had experienced that a lot of times.
Am the type who gives if I could. The only time that
I can voice out that I was treated unfairly is my family.
They know me best when I'm angry but I always calm down after a while. I am
afraid that when I tell that person there being unfair they might
misinterpret it and think that I don't like them. Sometime I just stay quiet
and maybe sometime I complain when I couldn't take it anymore.!
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
11 Feb 10
Hi yresh,yes,I can bear everyone eles who misinterpret me except my family,I will let them know my feeling at once ,thanks for posting!
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
12 Feb 10
hehe...thanks friend,I hope to see more of your post to my other discussions ,have a nice day!
@magic9 (980)
• China
11 Feb 10
According to my experience, I now accept the injustice and inequality. Complaints are only nonsense. It doesn't help. makes no sense. I would rather try to turn myself into that person being treated speically, being envied by others. When such things happen (surely it happens all the time everywhere), one must learn to accept it and change oneself.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
11 Feb 10
Hi Magic,as you said,the first thing is to confirm it is really a injustice but not our true mistakes by consider things from other's angle,sometimes personal remark make us improve lot,my father used to make an unfairly jugement on my work purposely when I was a kid.though it's hard to become perfect to avoid injustice,we need to fight with people who challenge you with preijudice sometimes.
thanks for posting!
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
11 Feb 10
Yes,Picjim,it's better to walk away from such situation and get rid of relationship with such a person.thanks for posting
@Nirishasol (879)
• India
11 Feb 10
If somebody do injustice with me then its really not fare but i will try my bet to justify my self.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
11 Feb 10
Hi Nirishasol,I will do the same thing that to prove myself,at the begining,I just to strike back rihgt,but I found it makes things become worse... now I will consider it twice and to choose a right time and a right place to let others know I am innocence
@minotaur87 (769)
• Singapore
11 Feb 10
I realised that demonstrating to others is pretty useless. I would rather keep it to myself or share it with some good friends and let it go. I have resigned to the fact that life is just unfair. The less calculative you are, the happier you would be.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
11 Feb 10
Hi Minotaur,you are my example,as we can't change other's mind by just speaking,indeed to demonstrate ourselves is not a short term program,we need to put money ,time ,lots of effort to reach our aim,is it worthy to do so? that's depend.you are so magnanimity...thanks for posting,have a nice day!
@zim1fW (285)
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
Injustice always visits us regularly from other people. Even losing your seat to someone when you temporarily stood up to by something but still plans to go back to the seat. I simply let those injustices pass silently.
But if that injustice involves lives of my love ones. I will be expected to defend them with whatever I got, and seek restitution before the court of law if I'm confident it will give me that justice.
