Does distant relationship works?

Philippines
February 11, 2010 4:19am CST
My partner is about to leave me tomorrow, like my bestfriend, working for money, but I am just afraid for our relationship, I don't know if we can survive keeping this while we are apart...
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@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Yes it does. It works for me and my boyfriend. We've been together for almost four years. I know that it's hard but when you really love each other, you can surpass all things no matter how hard it may be. You need to trust each other and have a good communication. Love can surpass all things despite the distance. =)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
I will remember that brymel... and I am happy for you and your bf... I hope I and my partner will last to despite of distance.... god bless... thanks for this...
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
God bless you and the one you love. Remember that love knows no distance. Wishin' you both the best and all the happiness. =)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
'Love knows no distance', wow... thanks again...
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
How far is she gonna be from you? I think it will still work. Just take everything positively. Maybe this way could be a test for you and for her on how you will be able to make things work out even if you're miles away from each other. The key dont give up easily. I had a long distance with my ex-boyfriend before and now he's already my husband. =)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
Thats a fairytale dear, I hope our story would be like yours too... I dont know exactly for how long, I hope if this is a test, I can pass... thanks...
• Kuwait
11 Feb 10
it will work if you really love the person... or else it won't... you need to make sure you let the person know that there is someone waiting for them.. trust is most important because when you trust someone you can go about your own life without stressing out. then there is communication that ties everything together, telling each other what's going on right, what's going on wrong... planning the future together... syncing goals and plans together and making it a reality... if you can achieve these you can maintain a distant relationship.
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Thanks you so much rahil, copy all these... and made me remember one good quote-- faith is daring the soul to go beyond what the eyes can see... Now, I am still afraid, afraid for all that might happen ahead... but Will believe on you... many thanks!
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
long distance relationship works for me and my husband. it's really hard at first but because of our technology, internet and phone, it makes our distant relationship easy and grow stronger and stronger. you have to have a time to communicate with her, send an SMS or make a call.just a simple "i miss you" or "i love you" will really mean a lot in your relationship.so trusts and communication makes a long distance relationship lasts.. (",) happy mylotting!
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Thanks a lot, remember that.. tommorrow she'll leave me... I'll prepare my "I miss you" hehehehe. Thanks again for the care.... Good luck to you and your love... God bless.
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
It really depends on the both of you. Long distance relationships needs a lot of effort from both people. Without any effort, it will not transpire anything. What I do suggest is to keep the communication alive and trust should be visible even when far apart so both parties feel that they are secured with eachother.
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
THANK you a lot sublime...
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
I don't think its possible. As long as you weren't lost communication. And it was proven fact for me. I'd had a bf before and we'd loved each other. And distance had tested us how strong our love for each other. It was 4 months since he left me when he hadn't call me at all. And its been 5 years from now and there were no closure for our relationship. Well, its just based on my experience, and don't think its gonna be happening to you in your part. Just pray that she will always be with you no matter what, how far away she is from you. Love will lead the way.. keep your heart like a burning flame.
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Love will lead the way--copy that... and thank you majure... God bless...
• United States
15 Feb 10
It can work if you two set up the time to connect with each other. Figure out if there is a time during the day or night when you two can talk to each other.And once you set this up , Always be there. I think if you keep your connection it should be okay.
• United States
12 Feb 10
it worked for mw and my husband he was a truck driver gone 21 days and home 3 and those 3 days where like a honey moon every time he came home and if the trust and the love is there there is no problem and it sounds like to me you don't trust him
@valkerion (1827)
• United Kingdom
11 Feb 10
I had 2 distant relationships. One of em lasted 6 months and the other 6 months too. It was hard to be honest cause I really cared for my partners..I really wanted to see them at least three or 4 times per week but that wasn't doable. My advice? Try it! You never know.
• Philippines
11 Feb 10
Thanks, but I am in doubt now... I think it would be so hard...