You believe you are quite different from others? what makes u think so?

@voldrox (7191)
India
February 12, 2010 12:36am CST
sometimes i do think about this a lot, there is always something going on in my head, i dunno but sometimes i do find myself thinking a lot.. for some reason i believe i am a deep person however i try not to be like that but i can't help thinking about that too .. one of the reasons some people do find it a little hesitating while talking to me.. what makes you believe you are different from others?? or may be there are somethings you wish others possessed, it could be anything.. feel free to comment whatever you wish to.. thanks... you can tell me something about you... have a nice day
14 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
Hello voldrox, Precisely,we all differ from each other. Not even two identical twins had all same things in liking,attitude and everything. What more with other people. Each person possesses special ability than other. Special talent,characteristic and thinking.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
12 Feb 10
hi jaiho, yes we are.. in so many manners, well there are somethings we always expect from others at times that is to understand us, sometimes it becomes hard to understand others..
@voldrox (7191)
• India
12 Feb 10
yes jaiho you are right, i guess i am in that stage of accepting others i mean thinking the way they see it, it would be much better if we could understand rather than expecting from others :) thank you for sharing jaiho
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
what makes it hard my dear is when we expect others to become like us. Or,we expect other people to be at least behave or act as what we expect them to be. i also had this attitude,i am an observer,and,to avoid issues,the best thing to do is ignore the person(as long he/she never provoked or start any annoyance)
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@noorasie (686)
• Pakistan
13 Feb 10
Yes i am different from other. Because I am "I" that's it.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Feb 10
a strong symbolization mhm..
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
12 Feb 10
i am very creative and am always thinking about arts and crafts and am always trying something new in that field. i have also taught myself how to do a number of crafty things!
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Feb 10
hi cher, well i am sure you must have made some really interesting things .. all the best with it..
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
hi voldrox, well I'm a normal person for sure LOL hahahah, but sometimes I see myself different from others by principle. In any situation I am in I'm always bringing my principle with me and its very tough to broke. haha..
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Feb 10
hi dorothy09, your principles hehe sounds funny, i have a friend of mine who always puts his fundamentals where there is some need for explanation and it becomes funny at times..
@tanchyka (213)
• Slovenia
12 Feb 10
I think about this a lot too. Sometimes I feel like people around me are so superficial and they don't think at all. I feel like I'm the only one who is normal, sometimes. I really hate feeling like that because I can't relate to any of my schoolmates who don't think very maturely. I feel like I'm a lot more mature than a person my age should be and I've always felt this way, but I can't help it, because that's who I am.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Feb 10
hi tanchyka, well that is quite interesting the way you feel about yourself.. i am sure others would catch up soon.. things would get better soon
@azdolar (28)
• Bulgaria
12 Feb 10
I think I'm different because a lot of people in my area follow my style. And also, I'm the only one who is really concerned about his feature and is really doing something,actually a lot, about it. Moreover,unlike me, most of my classmates and friends are ... slow :D . I don't know if it's just my luck or I'm faster than others... It might be a genetic bug of mine. (i would be grateful if someone finds a mistake of mine and tell me , because i'm not native english speaker,actually i'm learning english at the moment ;d ) Thanks, Norbert
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Feb 10
don't worry Norbert, i am not a native speaker either, and you English isn't bad either, well going through your response was nice, you are fast so why wait, just let others catch up
@urbandekay (18278)
12 Feb 10
I am different from others because unlike them I do not believe I am different all the best urban
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
12 Feb 10
interesting comment there urban. same to you..
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
12 Feb 10
most of what i belive in and how i feel about things i find there is many feel and belive in what i belive, specaily when it comes to respecting others, and treating people good. but i do often find how i would or used to handle things not many do agree with me, because i can break all ties with people even family to keep my straight. i know with my wife and her family they often dont agree with me on different things and tell me i am wrong, but it always end up in a yelling match. but there is some who is scare to say things to me because i am very honest and i am straight forward on things. but once again i gain so much respect from others because of this.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Feb 10
interesting to read your response syankee525, well for the honest person you are they certainly would respect you, but sometimes i guess you should make room for others i mean so you don't have to argue on things but have mutual understanding between yourselves.. there are not people around as honest as you but yeah you need to take care friend.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
..hi voldrox.. Oh, I do believe I'm a lot different from other people.. Nobody has been created with the same personality and way of thinking.. I have my own strengths and weaknesses that is different from other people.. sometimes, I got some views which is not favorable to other people.. and I got some attitude that could either irritate or befriend a person.. I have some wishes which others already possessed it.. and this is the reality of life.. because if we were all the same, then maybe we have a very strong competition even to the smallest things in life..
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
12 Feb 10
hi raynejasper, yes you are right, we might not exist if we were all the same but well that is the beauty, a world full of different types of people, only one thing can keep us altogether and that is love
@MrKennedy (1978)
12 Feb 10
I know that I am no more unique or special than the next person. Yes, I know nobody else will ever live the same life nor will they think the same thoughts, but based on what I actually do, I'm just another number added to the population.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Feb 10
hi mrkennedy, that is a good way of putting oneself, i am sure you have friends and family who adore you ..
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
Different is my middle name. LOL. It is something that is already established many years ago. Yes, I am different and there was even a time in my life when I thought I was abnormal or I felt so inferior among other people I know. But good thing I am already starting to accept who I am and what I can do so It doesnt matter now If I think I am different. I just don't easily jive with other people. I prefer to be alone and just be true to my self than be in a company of plastic people who only makes friends with you because they need something from you or they think they can benefit from you. Upon reading this comment of mine, I know you are thinking I am paranoid. And yes I am. That is something that just happened and I never wished for it. I am also introvert. Very anxious and deep person I can say. But I am not genius or that sort just different and super different. I have a different perspective of what happiness is. I don't gossip other people especially when I dont even know them personally, most of the girls I know are..... I hate girls that collects boys and pretend that they are making friends without malice or something which is obviously not true because she makes friends with boys and at the same time seduce him. I dont have crab mentality, of course I get jealous when people have new expensive things and gadgets but not to the point that I will put them down by talking behind my back. My only motto is" Dont mess up with me and I wont mess up with you" I only react when attacked and thats all. If you are nice to me then we are friends and I can assure you that I am loyal, trustworthy and very nice friend.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
12 Feb 10
you are no paranoid dear, i can understand how you think.. some things are similar.. well i do have many friends but not close to all of them, just a few good ones i can trust, some who don't know me think i am a very serious person .. you are no paranoid just different.. well i have one huge weakness, sometimes when i get quite angry i can yell at anyone fortunately it isn't easy for someone to get me to that stage.
@saanjh (784)
• India
12 Feb 10
yes I also think that I'm quite different from others because I cant do wrong with any one even our enemy's also I don't like so much fun I always preference my family in front of my happiness, my friend's are not thinking like me . so I think I'm different from others.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
12 Feb 10
hi saanjh.. i can understand what you want to say here, seems like sometimes we are more sensitive and serious towards some issues.. the way we think sometimes others fail to understand.. have a nice day
@slbwyc (63)
• Singapore
12 Feb 10
i do not think so. i think i live in the same way as people around. My life is the same as them. we take the same job, earn the same money and enjoy the same entertainment. there is no much difference between me and people around. however, there are not two person in the world who are exactly the same, we also have some unique property.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
12 Feb 10
hi slbwyc, yes it is that uniqueness that differentiates us from others others i mean the way of thinking and all.. love keeps us all together have a nice day
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
i am quite different from the others, because i came from rug to riches.. :-)
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Feb 10
good for you brequiron.