Help me with my LOVE problem...

hahaha what a situation you're in. Why don't you leave you married boyfriend now and tell your ex to get rid of his girlfriend as well so you and your ex can get back together? Based in your story it seems that you're both suffering when the solution is very simple? When i first read your story i thought your ex is the one that has gotten married but it turn out that it's you who's is the one involved with a married man. You may have your reasons why you got involved in that kind of relationship but you have to realize that it's you whose going to end up the loser eventually.

..Hi.. I'll be frank with you girl.. having a boyfriend who is already married is not a good thing in the first place.. be considerate enough of your boyfriend's family.. there is a possibility for his marriage and family to be broken because of you.. and who will suffer? it will be his children if he have.. instead of growing up with an intact family, the children will have to endure living away from one of their parents.. If you are in the situation of the children and the wife, will you not be hurt? so I'd advice you to better look for somebody else who could love you and give you his all without hurting others.. as for your ex, you let him choose between you and the girl.. if your ex says that you are his true love, then you might as well take the chance.. at least they're not married yet.. and the girl can still look for somebody else.. but if you could avoid hurting others, then do so.. look for a better person who could give you the happiness and fulfillment that you need..

Firstly - get rid of the boyfriend who is already married. He's cheating on some poor woman with you. Do you really think he'll be faithful to you too if he finds someone else? I feel sorry for his poor wife. Put yourself in HER shoes and imagine how you would feel if your future-husband did that to you. Secondly - if you still love your ex and he still loves you, why is he still going out with someone else? Perhaps get together with your ex and talk about what went wrong last time. Then see if you're both willing to try again. If he says no, have some pride and some faith in yourself and find a man who will love you for who you are - one who isn't already married.

I think you better think about your current relationship. If your boyfriend is already married, why continue this kind of affair? If you still do, well it's up to you. There are still good guys around, single and even better than your boyfriend. Second, if you really love your ex-boyfriend, I think you should set him free. You mentioned that he also love his girlfriend, right? So don't let him be confused on you and his girlfriend. You're still young and beautiful. I think you can find your own partner soon. "Someday, someone might come into your life and love you the way you've always wanted if someday was yesterday, learn... if someday is today, cherish... if someday is tomorrow, hope..."

hey sis loving a married man can't get you anything good..i mean you will suffer a lot..why not look for someone who can love you and only you..

Hey, chUms1822! Here's my opinion: About having a boyfriend who is not really available for you, I'm not blaming you nor questioning you from that. It's your choice and no one, for me has the right to blame you for that. But please think about it..... About your ex.... Think about your situation...how long can you carry that situation of yours? How long will you be happy and contented with that? what will you do if your new boyfriend finds out? Are you happy or you just fill your mind with the ideas that you are happy because you need an escape? Sorry if I have so many questions...I still have more...LOL! Your ex has his new life now...if he really loves you more than his new girl, he wouldn't have told you he still loves you when he is still on with his new girl...he should've break with her new girl and choose you...(am I bad?)....Not breaking up with her new girl, for me means that he can't let her go because she is as special as you(if you're that special to him, huh!). And that's a bad sign, we may never know when he'll said that he is not really in-love with you, and you have to let each other go. .....Another option: If you're really in-love with him and you still can feel he feels the same way...if the magic is still there, why not give yourselves a chance?....A chance to discover what you really have for each other......But don't do that when you still are committed to your said new bf, huh!...that's another problem if you do... But before choosing between accepting your ex or not, think and think and think... REMEMBER THAT WE ARE ALL FREE TO OPT, FREE TO DECIDE....BUT WE NOT FREE TO CHOOSE THE CONSEQUENCES OF OUR DECISIONS AND ACTIONS.

As your ex is in affair with other one. So it is best to forget him. Let him free. Your new is married then you can search for an unmarried one. There are enough unmarried.You can select anyone from them.

If your ex-bf do have gf den you have to avoid him and don't inter fear in their life. And if your new-bf is married or divorce den you can continue with him only. But avoid your ex-bf OK.

That's ok, but make sure that your new bf won't find out about that. And still show that your moving on. If you cannot and your new bf finds out. Better think about it or end up hurting one another.