Help me out on this / myLot

Singapore

February 12, 2010 2:15pm CST

I am finding it difficult on who amongst these two girls i've been close to of recent, that i'd love to go out with on a VAL date. I see them all as very special to me. Kate: She's an old friend who's been really dear to me. Though I never had a time out with her before. She told me she hadn't got a date for this VAL. So what do you think? Should it be her? Grace: She's my ex-girlfriend who i'd say was my best girlfriend. She recently broke-up with her date and feels a little downcasted at the moment thats why i'd like to make her fill special on VALs day. No strings attached! So, should it be her? I'm confused. I need your advice.

3 responses

tdiamond33

@tdiamond33 (330)

• Canada

12 Feb 10

Valentines day to me is a very special occasion for you and yours. I will step into your shoes for a moment. I have two girls that I care about, but one is my old friend that I feel really comfortable with and the other one is my ex-girlfriend from which we had great moments with. Now the question would be this. Who are you truly in love with? Whomever woman you choose to spend valentines with, I feel should be the one that you see yourself getting serious with and maybe falling in love with. I know it's tough, I've been there, but I would say to truly follow your heart because valentines day IS all about hearts.

@jamaiyi (66)

• Singapore

12 Feb 10

i've tried to follow my heart but right now i feel it's deceiving me. one moment it tells me to pick my ex(Grace) and the next minute i'm having the thought that betraying leting Kate stay lonely on that day.

lowloy

@lowloy (316)

• United States

12 Feb 10

I would tell your friend Kate that you have no date also. "Can we go together to the Valentine's dance sense we both don't have dates and enjoy one another company. Don't push it you might not get any and may feel worse.

jamaiyi

@jamaiyi (66)

• Singapore

12 Feb 10

but i don't know if you are m / f

pinklady227

@pinklady227 (285)

• Philippines

13 Feb 10

The decision is really up to you since you will be the one dating with her. However since you are asking for opinion, I think you should give it a try to have a date with Kate specially that you've mentioned that you never had a time out with her unless of course if you still have a special feeling for your ex. Whatever your decision will be, I do hope you will have a great time celebrating valentines day with your date.