Unsecure
By angelsfire1
@angelsfire1 (9)
United States
February 12, 2010 3:13pm CST
Lately I have been feeling like my fiancee doesn't want to be with me anymore. We have a 2 year old child but I don't want him to be the only reason that my fiancee is with me. In some ways I feel like it's my fault but in other ways I feel like he isn't trying hard enough. I really wish I knew how to strengthen my relationship without making a big deal out of it. Can my fellow mylotters help me with this?
2 responses
@timasma (123)
• Poland
13 Feb 10
I think we all feel like you one time or another, I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I did when I felt like that. I talked about how I felt and asked if there was a reason for me to feel that way, I said how it was affecting me and asked him to reassure me. And it worked, he told me he was sorry for not letting me know how much he loved me, all because he was so busy at work. But after that he makes sure I know how much he loves me. Sometimes we have to express how we feel, I wouldn't say we are making a big deal out of it, we just all need to know were we stand, if we feel a bit unloved it's obviously because the other person is not doing a really good job at letting know we are loved. Hope this helps!
@renaissance2010 (249)
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12 Feb 10
Please buy a book called "why men love b*****" i think it will help you. Its on amazon and ebayer.
