How often do you cry?
By ANIME123
@ANIME123 (2466)
United States
February 12, 2010 5:58pm CST
Crying usually makes things ok everyone cries in order to feel better to just let out all the sadness that is being with held in ones body. I do cry at least every day so I can get it out of me after that is done though I tend to smile and just accept it. Sometimes it is hard to deal with issues that we may have, but it's also good to keep moving forward with a smile on our face showing people that we are actually ok. Sometimes crying can be the best cure to letting out all your sadness through tears. Maybe I sound a bit crazy, but this is what I believe.
Still I wonder how often do you cry??? Does it help you in any way when you cry???
16 responses
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
13 Feb 10
Hi,
I don't cry, actually I can't. I don't know how to do it. No matter how severely hurt I am I don't cry. I believe crying is a learned ability. I know crying can be the best cure for deep sadness. But I think I believe more on denial of pain. I want to give lesser and lesser attention to my pain until it cease to exist. Though I too feel lonely and sad and prefer to shut myself out but I don't cry even for once.
Take care
God bless you
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
13 Feb 10
Hi,
No I am not sad. Sorrow has lost its significance to me. Sorrow is nothing but a mental state. When the sorrow comes, it strikes you so bluntly and prosaically, that it often leaves you shocked, clueless. But if you have a greater understanding of reality and a high degree of surrender to god, then you will not take much time to recover. Invincibility comes with self realization and a 100% belief in God. A 100% belief is difficult no matter how hard we try. It can be accomplished only with sufficient reduction of ego, which is even more hard to accomplish. Hard but not at all impossible dear.
Take care
God bless you
@jugsjugs (12967)
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13 Feb 10
I have cried alot in the past about alot of different things.I have cried through sadness as well as through temper.I try not to let anyone see me cry,as well as i never let the children see me as well.I think that there is nothing wrong with crying also that i think that at some point we all cry and i do think tat crying can be good for you as well.There are alot of men that cry and there is nothing wrong with men crying either.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Hi ANIME123,Crying is natural behavior of a human being.I believe that it is a part of our life. I am so emotional and i cry most of the time when I pray to God.When I'm sad and lonely.Sometimes i cried when I'm happy.I think it is the best way to cleanse our heart.Have a nice day.
@fairytale123 (334)
• China
13 Feb 10
I think crying is a best way to reless pressure,I like crying.maybe I am easy to cry.sometimes I always cry.
@VinceTherese (2)
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13 Feb 10
We cry every time when we are being hurt. But, crying is a normal reaction. It only helps me set me free because if we do not cry we won't even be free.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
..hi.. I'm also fond of crying.. 
.. and you're right.. for me, crying is a way of releasing the burden in that we carry in our heart.. but after drying my tears, I would promise myself not to cry for the same reason again.. crying isn't a sign of defeat.. it is a sign of being strong accepting the fact that we need an outlet of what we feel.. and then after that, we regain strength and continue to move on.. but I don't cry everyday.. I just cry when I feel like crying.. and I always smile after that.. of course, we always have the choice to be happy even if we are experiencing some problems..
.. and you're right.. for me, crying is a way of releasing the burden in that we carry in our heart.. but after drying my tears, I would promise myself not to cry for the same reason again.. crying isn't a sign of defeat.. it is a sign of being strong accepting the fact that we need an outlet of what we feel.. and then after that, we regain strength and continue to move on.. but I don't cry everyday.. I just cry when I feel like crying.. and I always smile after that.. of course, we always have the choice to be happy even if we are experiencing some problems.. 
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
13 Feb 10
It seems like I cry a lot espcially lately. I have been so upset that I am not working much and am stuck at home a lot because my husband and I have one car and he needs it for work. My husband has strange hours and the last two days his boss calls him at 4AM to go into work at 5AM. His boss does not even say he is sorry for waking me up. I am always crying because I am always worrying that we do not have enough money for the basic necessities.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Feb 10
AS far as I am concerned, I never cry when I am a little older. But Frankly speaking, I was so young a boy, I usually cry just like a little girl who will cry when something comes to her. But that is really me. I just cry when a little thing happen to me. I will think off my parents then. But with the time went by, I become growing up. I know that I am a true man. Man should have no tears in eyes. And I swear not to cry any more.
@cusexcon (17)
• India
13 Feb 10
people do cry a lot in childhood. When one grows up slowly the cry is reduced. Even at times of distress and sorrow grown up people suppress their attitude to cry because that makes one look awkward in front of others. But to cry out the sorrow helps to relieve stress and reduce heart attacks. Men cry less than women being less emotional comparatively. When a problem could not be solved by any better to cry it out so that health is not affected.
@Someone920 (1)
• United States
13 Feb 10
Last time i cried was last year, i can't remember why, but i know i cried =P
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Crying really makes me feel better, if I have no one to turn to and I felt that the world is against me and no chance to escape, I cried and after that I felt better and make the possible things to lessen all of worries. Right now, I am so depressed because of what's happening to my family and financial problem. I often cries because I belive that it is the best thing that makes my feelings fine.
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I have cried twice this week. I just cried last night while praying. I confessed all my fears to God. 
It is very easy to make me cry because I am very sensitive. You are not crazy if you cry everyday--you'll get past that. I also do cry several times a month. However, just like you, I also don't let my family see me cry. I do it either in the bathroom or in the bedroom. It feels really good, and then afterwards I feel like I haven't had any burdens at all. The only downside is that I don't share with any person my emotions inside.
It is very easy to make me cry because I am very sensitive. You are not crazy if you cry everyday--you'll get past that. I also do cry several times a month. However, just like you, I also don't let my family see me cry. I do it either in the bathroom or in the bedroom. It feels really good, and then afterwards I feel like I haven't had any burdens at all. The only downside is that I don't share with any person my emotions inside.