Single or to be Committed.......

I am in a committed relationship. I am happily married and can not be happier with waking up next to the same woman everyday for the rest of my life. I enjoyed the single life when I had no responsibilities and could do what I wanted when I wanted but that was not the life for me. I like the responsibilities of having a family and being there for them and providing for them and being a great husband and father to them.

Being single is okay and having commitments are part of life. Commitment is a very strong word and if you are single, before you commit yourself about something, make sure you are ready for it. There are gonna be lots and lots of demands and you have to adjust all the time. If you are still single, prepare yourself for the commitment but take it easy and slowly. It is also one of the most important ddecisions that you will make in your life.

I think our main objective in our live is to be happy, being married or being single is merely an attempt to attain that main objective.. I have been in some relationships and have been single in between and then again have been on relationships, i think if relation or commitment provides with freedom and mental growth i'd like to be committed over being single i mean whats the fun in being single except for the fact that we can screw anyone anywhere anytime without the feeling of guilt..... on the contrary, if we are committed and share a mental and physical stimulation with one person,,,, life can be great.

While I did enjoy being single when I was single...doing what I wanted, when I wanted based on my own choices...I prefer being in a relationship, which probably explains why I'm happily married. I wasn't looking for a relationship when I met my husband but some things are meant to be and we were destined to meet and fall in love. My husband is my best friend and I enjoy spending time with him. Since we own and run a business together, that's pretty fortunate.

I know that single is best for me because I have nothing to worry about and I can just live my life happily like this because I love to be independent and have lots of fun with my friends. Still others preffer to be commited and that's ok too.