What would you prefer?

Philippines
February 13, 2010 12:27am CST
Hi fellows.. What would you prefer, being loved more than how much you love your partner or the opposite? why?
7 responses
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I would prefer to be loved more than I love my partner..lol I could still love my partner the way he would want me to love him. I dont know why I want it that way but I just kinda like the idea. There are lesser chances of him leaving me because he loves me dearly and of course not because I love him not as much as he loved me, it doesn't mean I am going to love him less or leave him or something like that. I am always faithful.
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
..you're right.. In my part, I think I loved my partner more than he loves me and most of the time, he take advantage of my love.. He can easily hurt my feelings and he is still confident that i won't leave him because he knows I love him.. I don't wanna be martyr in my whole lifetime.. sometimes, love can fade if it isn't taken cared.. But until I can fathom, I will not leave him.. But I feel that as the days go by, my love is fading because I'm getting disappointed more and more..
@jbaunillo (254)
• Philippines
14 Feb 10
hi raynejasper! I think if i were to choose, i honestly wanted to be loved more than i love a person. In that case i feel more secure because i know that someone is inlove with me. unlike that i love the person more than he/she loves me, there is the feeling of insecurity, jealous sometimes because you already know that he/she loves you less.
@emgee26 (38)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
well i know it's too late, but given a chance i will choose the one who i loved most rather than the one who loves me more.. cause choosing the one who loves me more gives me pain coz i can't love him back and i always remember the person who i really love.. i thought at first that if you choose the who loves you everything will go back to the right place and eventually you can love him too, but i was so wrong.. so choose the one you love and it will make you much happier and much loved..
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I would rather choose someone who I loved most. How can I be with someone who I don't love and loves me very much? The sad part is, if that person loves you back the same way as you do to that person.. Love is give and take... Sometimes Its just to hard which one to choose.
@jhen913 (15)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
for me i would prefer to be love more than i love a guy or the same way i love them but to what is happening to me right now i think i love my BF more than he loves me..my BF is not that showy when it comes to love..and i think im that martyr also just not to let go of him..sad to say but its true...
@jhen913 (15)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
for me i really preferred to be loved more than the love i gave or the same as the love im giving..but for what is happening to me right now i think i love my BF more than he loves me..and sometimes i feel like i'm a martyr just to be with him..sad to say but its true..
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Of course I wouldn't wanna go to that point where we're not loving each other the same way, but if I were to choose, I would prefer loving him more than he loves me. Why? I don't know honestly. I'd rather be the martyr.