Will you attend your ex gf/bf wedding?
By cloud31
@cloud31 (5809)
11 responses
@jackpot15 (32)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
if my ex gf asked me to attend on her wedding well if we both had a good closure of ending our relationship..i will attend, and i would be proud to see her walking in the isle.. but if we didn't made a proper closure.. i think that would be hard.. i would rather not to attend. . .. tnx
@junil_jk (496)
• India
14 Feb 10
well, for me that depends on how amicably we broke up. i had an ex who cheated on me and she invited me and all my friends(who are her friends too as we were in college together) for her wedding. no one went. if she hadn't cheated on me and had we parted amicably then i might have went.
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Hi cloud :)
Well if ever I was invited by my an ex-lover in his wedding, I guess I won't attend. Probably it depends on the kind of person you are.. for some, there's absolutely no problem with that especially if they're friends with their exes. But for me, I don't make friends with an ex-lover who broke my heart so for me there's no reason at all to attend the wedding. What's their point in inviting me anyway? To show that I'm still single? Hahahaha.. Duh. haha.
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Feb 10
Hello cecille,
Yah that was the main reason why most ex doesn't want to attend their ex wedding, the bitterness or feeling hurt when they separated their ways, in this case i think there is no doubt not to attend his wedding its a kinda insulting to your part,and if he broke your heart the time when you was with him, i think its really hard to wish him even a single word congratulation..LOL..
Thank you for posting..And nice to know your view regarding this topic..God bless!
@alilin28 (1527)
• Uruguay
13 Feb 10
i think that i woudnt go! firt, because if he is my ex boy and we slipted up, were existed one or more reasons to split up. second, i wount feel weel seeing this. tird, i woundt want to disturbed the other girl, im sure that she knows well, she has known me bhhy a photograph or he told her or something like that.. and fouth.. they have choosen live togheter, and why i would to share with us?
definetly not..
and if the case was i sent a invitation to my ex, im sure that he would go, because he is a piece of rubbish, and the only who wants is disturbed me. thanks god i have not seeen him in 1 year until now..
have a nice day
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Feb 10
You are considering others feeling and that is good reason not to attend his wedding,maybe its just normal to feel not if you and your ex still have feeling with each other otherwise it maybe easier for you to accept things if behind will just normal as nothing happened before..
Thank you for sharing your view and God bless!
@pentagan12 (757)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I guess it depends. If I still love my ex-boyfriend, then I wouldn't probably attend his wedding because it will be very painful for me to see him exchanging vows with another woman. But if I have already moved on from that relationship and I already have my own love, I think there's nothing wrong about attending the wedding. Well almost but not all of my ex-boyfriends became my friend so I won't mind going to their wedding if in case they will invite me. In fact, I would be very happy to see them with another woman. I have my own love right now and I am very happy about it.
@luvlymee26 (326)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 10
I think i have no courage to attend my ex bf wedding. My relationships never ended in good way. We never be friends in the end. So if my ex boyfriend invites me to his wedding, i will not attend it. It feels so hurt to see the one I ever loved, the one who ever experienced many great things together with me, to be with another person. Maybe i only can pray to them for his happy life forever. But to attending his wedding, i dont think so.
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Feb 10
Hello luvlymee,
Yes as it was mentioned a while ago it really depends how did you parted your ways i mean how did you end up with your ex..If you end up like you arguing or there's a gap between you and him the time you broke up with him and there's no reason to attend his wedding ceremony.
Its good to wish them happiness in life and you feel better accepting that he had his own life now..
Thank you for posting and God bless !
@WiseReptiles (854)
• United States
13 Feb 10
My wife invited my ex to our wedding and she came. My wife and my ex get along well and have never knew each other before so it's not like they have a friendship or anything toward each other.
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I had posted a discussion before about my ex invited me to his wedding.
The wedding will be on this coming 24, he invited me, but I think there's no need for me to attend , he keep on asking if I can come, I said yes. But I wont.
I am also a woman, and I know it will be hard to his wife to be if she found out that I am his groom ex-girlfriend. So I wont attend.
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Feb 10
Hello myra, Its a right decision not to attend his wedding and considering his wife feelings will not be so nice seeing you attending their special day..
Anyway its your choice not to attend and maybe its good for both party.
Thanks for posting..Happy lotting and God bless!
@teriyaki18 (135)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
hi there!
i attended my first bf's wedding three years ago. its kinda funny that i don't think something's wrong with it since i got married first and yeah im already 8 months pregnant with my 2nd boy. so there's no awkwardness on my part.
but i think there was in the part of the bride. coz i just learned in the wedding itself that the groom invited me without informing her. but she felt relieved to see me pregnant and all.
but on my wedding i didn't invited him, coz i know he wouldn't attend. i know him. lol
@cloud31 (5809)
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13 Feb 10
That was so funny story you have and its good your ex is clam enough to make things right,..Your ex want to develop a friendship with after all those matters between you and him..And its nice to know you did attended his wedding and now his bride know your pregnant she feels much better..Lol
Happy Lotting and God bless ..
@Nirishasol (879)
• India
13 Feb 10
No i will never attend my ex-boyfriend wedding party because i never like to re call my past and i don't like to inter fear in their life.