What causes people fall in love?
By nophie
@nophie (2336)
Indonesia
February 13, 2010 6:32am CST
Hi mylotters, i have a simple question, altough all had experienced falling in love, but sometimes we are still confused to answer question like this. what do you think mylotters?
9 responses
@summer77 (414)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Yeah it is really confusing and it is even hard to tell if what you feel for that person is love or it's just an infatuation. And I am not sure if what I have been really in love before or until now. LOL. Well maybe, a bit. LOL. Seriously, for me, I tend to fall to a person basing on the personality. Honestly, love is very unexpected and for me I didn't notice it for the first time. There was this message, "We don't choose the person we fall for, it usually hits us like a bullet. At 1st we can't feel it. And then bang! We bleed!"
Love is just so complicated and hard to define. It's just happen suddenly, like being strike by bullet or a lightning. :(
@summer77 (414)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
yeah, maybe nophie... I got impressed quite easily, but I am not easy to get. LOL. I wasn't easy, they know. LOL.. About comparing it to a bullet, I know it's a fallacy but I don't mean to take it literally. =D Maybe that notion, it's some sort of a crazy philosophy, maybe. LOL.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
13 Feb 10
it`s ssimple question so i answer with a simple answer.why we are in love? because love is created by God to unite woman and men to be one great couple,get a happiliy life because men and women need each other. love is beautiful and it should not be to torture somebody else in name of love
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Feb 10
AS far as I am concerned, I think the reason why people fall in love with each other is that the feeling in their heart. When the lovers came to the first eye contact, they may be falling in love with each other. The feeling in their heart has something changed so quickly. They just want to see each other as often as This is the most reason that people can fall in love with each other. Happy you have a happy love.
@kschilling (96)
• Canada
13 Feb 10
i dont think there really is an answer to this question. I think it just sort of happens, and that we fall in love with who we fall in love with. Many times there is no ecplanation or reason, it just happens. I believe there are no right or wrong answers when it comes to love. Everyone has their own opinions on it, i just personally believe it is something that takes place i our souls, in our hearts, something we dont just feel physically, but also mentally and emotionally, and trying to pin point one reason as to why, is incomprehesable. (thats prob spelt wrong) Anyways, i also believe when you love someone that it should be an unconditional love. Even when they dissapoint you, or hurt you, or make you angry, you still love them, and it is that love that gets you through the hard times.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
Maybe it is a reaction. I am really not sure about this, but we are fascinated when we see something. When we see a new people and he looks good or he looks handsome in our eyes, we are fascinated, we started to admire him. When he is smart and caring and nice even if he is not that gorgeous we still admire him. When we see some good things that he do like being gentlemen we admire him. It is always starts from admiration. When it became deep that is the time we allow ourselves to fall inlove. When he feels the same way, that is the time we fall for him. Falling in love is mixed with different emotion, you are sometimes happy and sometimes it can hurt you. Falling in love is wonders of life, we must treasure the moment we are feeling that kind.
@Nirishasol (879)
• India
13 Feb 10
I think we fall in love because we do have genuine feeling with each other.