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If I was in that situation pregnant without my boyfriend's wishes I would get used to having a surprise pregnancy. I would find out my baby's due date and tell my boyfriend that. I would explain that I knew he didn't want a child and I was taking birth control. I know I would continue with my pregnancy and stay with my boyfriend if he would be supportive to me. If he asked me to have an abortion I would say no way. I would give birth and bring up my child on my own or with my boyfriend's help. If I really had to do so I would adopt my baby. Me keeping my baby is by far the most likely thing I would do.

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Hi I prefer to raise the child myself

I think that she must accept the fate that she pregnant. dont try to do an abortion.

I will talk to my parents and call his parent

Same thing i have earlier heard at my friends place, and to answer it is real difficult as it all depends on the situation. Man must take precautions as he knows that he is immature to take responsibilites of baby. If he thinks he is too young to take responsibility he just don't want to take responsibility. Now is a time to prove that he is ready for any situation to face. On the other side lady must know her dates and more important she can convince the boyfriend that we both can take responsibility and It will be real good time to start making life. One thing which real important is positive attitute, money comes and goes. I can comment on what step person should take as it all depends on personal situation. ALL the best and God Bless!

Nobody, but nobody, has ever gotten pregnant accidentally. You can get hit with a car, fall over a cliff, and drown Accidentally, but you can't get pregnant! It takes 2 people to cause a pregnancy, and there is nothing accidental about the technique. It is quite deliberate, and even though it can be done without a plan, it cannot be, and is not accidental!

Well if i face that situation, i would raise him by my own, i have to take responsibility with what i have done. I do not wanna make another mistake, so i have to fix it up by raising him. abortion just running from your guilt and it will hunt you all the time

If he does not want to be a husband or a father, then noone can make him. You can try to make him financially responsible for his child, but even with all the courts he can still run away from his duties. I would not go with an abortion. I would do the best i could to try to raise the child on my own, and if i felt that i could not do it alone then i would put the baby up for adoption. If you are willing to raise a child on your own and can do so then do the best you can.

For me I take the responsibility as the mother and the father to my baby I don't like to anbort because it is the biggest sin to Jehovah GOD.

That is normally the biggest problem in todays life. Two can play, but only one has to carry the burden. Unfair, yes. But if something like that happened to me, i will keep the child. I don,t believe in abortion and that guy will never see his kid and i wouldn,t want anything from him, no matter how hard times might be. TATA.

Geeez. That would suck. If I were in her shoes, I'd rather raise my child alone than to be with someone who only knows how to have fun and who doesn't know anything about taking responsibility. I believe that with a good support system such as my family and friends, I can be able to make it on my own without that stupid boyfriend. Dump that guy!=)

My sister got pregnant at the age of 16. She was so afraid... i told her not to do anything to the baby. Tell my parent's about it.. The baby is with us right now very healthy and cute.. He'S Nine months old, we wouldn't have any angel in the family if I stopped it!!

I think if the girl get pregnant then if she is strong and will be able to take this responsibility then she should continue with the pregnancy. And if she is not ready better to abort as the child is unwanted and will not be happy to live a life where mom and dad is not there to love. Both are ready then go ahead as child needs mom and dad support.

if im into that situation i would ask my BF about his plan with the child..if he wants to marry me then its good but if he don't its fine also with me why convince him still i might suffer eventually if i will..then if he wants to support the child financially then its good and i would let him see our child if thats the case but if he doesn't want to give anything maybe i would just bear the child on my own without him and i would not allow him to see his child anymore..