Have you ever had someone keep telling you that you can't do something?

Hi free! No, i have never had someone, who always tell me that I am not able to do something, because all my friends, relatives and university colleagues know, that I am a very ambitious person, i mean, i am person with a great will, and they all know, that I never give up, no matter what happens and i always reach my goals in life, because I am from that kind of people, who know what they want and how can get it

ya my friends used to many things i cant do . but the one important is that i cant get into a bus in running . which almost everyone in my college will do . .i will always try to that but it will be a bit fearful for me when i go to do that and i cant do it most of the times . some times i will do kit . but they will tell that the bus was moving slowly and they wont accept it . . .

All the time. I believe it about as much as you do! Do I go ahead and do it? Well, my situation gives others more control over me than I'd like, so if it doesn't have terrible circumstances...hell yes I go ahead and do it anyway. Sometimes it takes some figuring...and sometimes I do it despite the circumstances but yeah. I'm trying to get out of this situation and into a better one...But yeah. ^_^

I remember experiencing some of that as a child and it wasn't very helpful. It's taken many years and lots of reading of self-help books to get me on an even keel as it were! I do now believe that there is no such word as can't or cannot! Anyone can do anything if they really put their mind to it. That's a good approach, to try something new that you have never done before and chances are you will very reasonably good at it. Even if this isn't the case then at least you tried! I believe in the idea of trying something now. I still have my moments of shyness and not doing something out of fear. I think that the power of belief is very important too! That's me in a nutshell! Andrew

I often find when someone tells me it can't be done, don't bother or wate your time it makes me all the more determined to prove them wrong. Not that I ignore people's advice but I often find to many people are so conditioned to one way of thinking and doing things a certain way that they just can't think outside of the box to see that something is possible. To put it into perspective I have read a lot of advice over the last few years that certain niches for websites are so over crowded that it is impossible to break into them and compete with the big boys. Well to me that is a red rag to the bull and I am doing my upmost to prove all these people wrong often by thinking outside of the box to do it. If I end up being wrong, what have I lost other than time. Nothing, in fact I will have gained by experience.

yes, many people would say that you can't do something, simply because they are envious of you. i mean, they tell you that you cannot do it because they want you to lose your self-confidence, but you should not listen to them. you know in your heart and in your soul that you are capable of the things you wanted to do in your life. not only in computer technologies but also among other things

When it comes to computers, I am afraid to do much. I am always afraid of totally messing it up. We do not have money to get another one, and I would be lost without it. Alot of things I will try though.

Hi there.:) great question. Perfect timing. This morning I received a discouragement from my mom. Won't tell the details here but ever since mom is just like that. She wanted me not to experience pain for pursuing a goal that seems so hard. I understand what she meant because she just don't want me to feel depressed but for me it seems like she doesn't believe on what I can become. Sure there will be lots of frustrations and failures in reaching a goal but I know it would seem all worth it when I reached success:) i have nothing against my mom but I somehow thank God i have my uncle my mentor who believes in what i can do.:) He stood up as my father all my life. i look up to him so much because he believes in me and he accepts my failures just as he believes in me. My uncle used to be like me once, he told me... His parents wanted him to pursue Nursing but he intentionally failed the board exam to pursue his dreams as a businessman. He became a teacher, a bank manager, a sales agent and is now a unit manager of a prestigious life insurance company and part owner of a 5 star hotel in Subic. By the way he was also a barefooted vendor in his young years.:)

Hi there.:) great question. Perfect timing. This morning I received a discouragement from my mom. Won't tell the details here but ever since mom is just like that. She wanted me not to experience pain for pursuing a goal that seems so hard. I understand what she meant because she just don't want me to feel depressed but for me it seems like she doesn't believe on what I can become. Sure there will be lots of frustrations and failures in reaching a goal but I know it would seem all worth it when I reached success:) i have nothing against my mom but I somehow thank God i have my uncle my mentor who believes in what i can do.:) He stood up as my father all my life. i look up to him so much because he believes in me and he accepts my failures just as he believes in me. My uncle used to be like me once, he told me... His parents wanted him to pursue Nursing but he intentionally failed the board exam to pursue his dreams as a businessman. He became a teacher, a bank manager, a sales agent and is now a unit manager of a prestigious life insurance company and part owner of a 5 star hotel in Subic. By the way he was also a barefooted vendor in his young years.:)

Hi there.:) great question. Perfect timing. This morning I received a discouragement from my mom. Won't tell the details here but ever since mom is just like that. She wanted me not to experience pain for pursuing a goal that seems so hard. I understand what she meant because she just don't want me to feel depressed but for me it seems like she doesn't believe on what I can become. Sure there will be lots of frustrations and failures in reaching a goal but I know it would seem all worth it when I reached success:) i have nothing against my mom but I somehow thank God i have my uncle my mentor who believes in what i can do.:) He stood up as my father all my life. i look up to him so much because he believes in me and he accepts my failures just as he believes in me. My uncle used to be like me once, he told me... His parents wanted him to pursue Nursing but he intentionally failed the board exam to pursue his dreams as a businessman. He became a teacher, a bank manager, a sales agent and is now a unit manager of a prestigious life insurance company and part owner of a 5 star hotel in Subic. By the way he was also a barefooted vendor in his young years.:)

Hi there.:) great question. Perfect timing. This morning I received a discouragement from my mom. Won't tell the details here but ever since mom is just like that. She wanted me not to experience pain for pursuing a goal that seems so hard. I understand what she meant because she just don't want me to feel depressed but for me it seems like she doesn't believe on what I can become. Sure there will be lots of frustrations and failures in reaching a goal but I know it would seem all worth it when I reached success:) i have nothing against my mom but I somehow thank God i have my uncle my mentor who believes in what i can do.:) He stood up as my father all my life. i look up to him so much because he believes in me and he accepts my failures just as he believes in me. My uncle used to be like me once, he told me... His parents wanted him to pursue Nursing but he intentionally failed the board exam to pursue his dreams as a businessman. He became a teacher, a bank manager, a sales agent and is now a unit manager of a prestigious life insurance company and part owner of a 5 star hotel in Subic. By the way he was also a barefooted vendor in his young years.:)

When someone tries to tell me that i can't do something, i will do whatever i can to prove them wrong. If i have to study, or learn how to do it then that is what i will do. I have learned several things in my life, that i was told i could not do because i am a woman. I stood back and watched how things were done and then i did them on my own, just to prove that i could. I know that there are a few things that i can't do that a man can do, but there are also things i can do as a woman that a man can't do. I cannot just sit back and let it go when someone tells me i can't do something, i have to prove them wrong at any cost. It has helped me to learn things that i probably never would have learned.

i do my best to do this either it take hours or days...but i cant hear u can do it !! and in computers , everyone tell only u can do it !! ;-)