Do you feel compelled at commenting on other peoples comments or situations?
By coolsid2007
@coolsid2007 (1030)
India
February 13, 2010 11:08pm CST
I don't, i like to stay away not defensively but i don't like someone's opinion without me asking for it, similarly i think for other person too...
I've seen people doing the contrary, they are invasive of personal freedom, they just jump in to conclusions, interfere in other's life, i don't know if there is any motive behind it... some call it politics, some call it habit
what do you do? How do you feel in a similar situation.\?
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6 responses
@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
14 Feb 10
as long as we are in this community with the right means, i think we have the right to mingle and talk to each other as one big happy family. you are right no one has the right to obstruct and impede someone else's businesses with the wrong means. i know it is not easy to establish someone else's name especially for the beginners just like me but everyone of us could find a better way in order to shine. though as a beginner, i must not be over forward with my actions. otherwise, it has been considerably thought. rembember we came here not just for one reason. i thank you!
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@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
14 Feb 10
thanks for the comments, but i didn't mean here... in the day to day life i mean, at our work, at home while jogging, while in lift... etc etc
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@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
14 Feb 10
sry dude... but nor do i see balance in everything, you are contradicting your self what is wrong with perfectness... or if there is a balance, how can there be no perfectness? Plus I do not believe that god has to do anything with it...
cheers
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@Kumar1232009 (1215)
• Spain
14 Feb 10
yes i could similarly fathom and those are just usual with our day to day life otherwise the world would be perfected. this is the harmony of living. God is great he put everything in balance. i thank you.
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@WiseReptiles (854)
• United States
14 Feb 10
If I can not respond politely or educationally to someone post I try to stay away from it. It's hard to judge what someone else beliefs are as well as how they feel on a subject and it is possible to hurt someones feelings over commenting on something that was derogatory or was taken out of context even know it was not meant to sound or be taken that way. I will try given insite if someone is looking for t or try to help them out with a comment on what I have learned through life's lesson but I would never jump down someones throat for a post when it was easier for me to avoid that post instead of getting involved in it and wasting my time replying.
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@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
14 Feb 10
no i don't mean here, but in general in day to day lives, at the office, or with your neighbors... at times it gets too embrassing....
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@WiseReptiles (854)
• United States
14 Feb 10
I try to stay out of others issues but I do comment on my employees and the way that they handle themselves.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Feb 10
coolsid you should have been a bit more explanatory. I assumed you like a few others felt your discussion was so sacred that you did not want anyone else to comment on any of the comments. now I understand you are talking about real life. No I do not butt in at all,unless someone asks for my opinion. Now I understand where you are coming from, I feel a lot like you do. I do not like unasked for comments to me when I was at work, from people who had to right to bother me at all. Now if it was the branch manager of course I paid close attention as she was after all my boss.Yes real life is much different than our discussions here on Mylot. sorry I got confused as to what you were really referring to.
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Hi, coolsid!
I find it very difficult to become involved in other people's discussions, lives, etc. I've gotten better at it since joining sites such as this one, but I still tend to mind my own business.
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
20 Feb 10
hey! great, finally, i have someone who read the question, let alone understanding it.... thanks for your answer
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Feb 10
coolsid If I wish to comment on other people's comments and have a valid reason,not to insult at all, I will indeed comment. this is not breaking any mylot rule and all our discussions once they are posted are more or less public property. I love to see p eople jump in and comment on other comments on my discussions as it is keeping the discussion going and alive
and make it a real discussion. I do not see anything wrong in this, but am wondering why you are so touchy . it is only a discussion not a personal paper to which we rightfully have no right to comment on at all.What you see as p eople being invasive I see as continuing an over the back fence discussions between neighbors. sorry that I am in disagreement to your opinion but as I respect your feelings,you must also respect mine.
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
20 Feb 10
I am not being so touchy at all... i was just asking in case of real world outside, when we want to mind our own businesses and at time just be with the family...
As long as social networking sites are concerned I don't mind it all... i mean the whole idea is of networking right?
Cheers
@pinklady227 (285)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
If someone does not ask for my opinion, i'd rather keep quiet. I prefer to give my comment/suggestion when someone asks for it. I don't like to be labeled as being nosy.