a special date which turned out to be a disaster...
By dragonangel
@dragonangel (551)
February 14, 2010 6:41am CST
Hello everyone! I wonder if i could receive responses now when i know for sure that today is going to be a busy day, well this would count only to those people in love having dates in today's world known VALENTINES DAY perhaps. Even so, let me ask you how would you feel when you're having this so called special valentines day date and then in the middle of this special moment, your partner mumbles about his/her ex names? I guess today is so timely for me to hear your responses about this. How would you handle the situation like that? What will you do?
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5 responses
@laura_lmaxi (678)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Well this is one of the most horrible things that can happen to me, I can't even think how horrible it would be, I think I would get furious, and obviously I will think that if he is still mumble his ex name he is probably thinking about her, and I don't want to be with someone that is still thinking about his ex, I will finish it very soon, and don't see the guy never again. I think we all deserve someone that love us and not their ex.
@dragonangel (551)
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15 Feb 10
you're very right at that laura...you have just displayed a very strong personality in you...I like hearing someone strongly making a stand...
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
14 Feb 10
Well they're not together anymore, so it really shouldn't matter if he/she says anything about their ex unless you know that they're still not over them. I mean it might actually be that they were thinking how much better this is compared to how it was before, you never know.
Although I would totally question him about it and ask what he meant to be sure.
But now that you bring it up I'll have to remember not to mention my exes in front of my boyfriend later today xD
@dragonangel (551)
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14 Feb 10
hahah . yes Rhazelle , you shouldn't unless you enjoy disaster dates... I wish daters will be sensible enough not to mention their exes during dates , coz honestly , it is indeed annoying...Enjoy!!!
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
Well, that is definitely and insult on ones part considering that such date was supposed to be for the both of you and not about the past relationship. I know that we cannot help but say sometimes about our past relationships but if on such a special day, then it would really make me feel sad and awkward. The past is the past and it should be left that way. Otherwise, the new relationship cannot grow and prosper.
@underdogy (700)
• Thailand
14 Feb 10
I couldn't agree more to the first comment given by Rhazelle. What it was before is totally different from what it is now. However, if people haven't been able to get over of their exes, that is a different story.
I also firmly believe that those type of things should be avoided so as not to spoil your romantic moments together (I meant mentioning names of the exes) 
. Anyhow, I wish you and your partner still had a good time even if it was not better due to the mentioning of exes names thingie. Happy Valentines!!
. Anyhow, I wish you and your partner still had a good time even if it was not better due to the mentioning of exes names thingie. Happy Valentines!!
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
14 Feb 10
I agree with you somewhat.
but i think if we dont have a girlfriend or boyfriend. why dont we see what we have more lovable.
yes we have the parents. there is never any breakup with them. and if you can really make a day special for you. do someting special for them , they will be surprised and the response from their side will really make you happy alot.
