To know love or to have not known it at all.

I once heard a poem about this topic, and the words were something like this: "The person who has lost the love of their life is poor, but the person who has never loved another is even more poor" I agree with those words. My ex-boyfriend and I were together for almost 6 years and when he broke up with me, it was very, very hard to get through that situation. I thought that I was never going to get happy again, but the truth is I am lot more happy today than I was when we were still together. If I don't love another person I can protect myself against the pain, but at the same time I would miss out on so many wonderful things, and I prefer to know love even though it can be very painful when it ends.

I say love it's a gift to know what is the happiness and the pain inside... And also it's gift so that we could stay exist in this world... Sometimes or many, love does hurts somebodies and blind somebodies ... That's the risk in of love i guess...

Hi laydee!^^ It is really horrible when you and your partner break up. It is painful and you feel like your chest will burst and your heart will be torn apart. But even with this kind of feeling, I still would have chosen to know love. It's a good feeling to be in love. You feel happy and you're always in a good mood. You're always blooming so they say. Even with the little things, like just seeing him, makes you happy already. Just hearing his name brings a smile in your face. You face the world positively because with love, everything seems possible and you feel like you can take anything the world will hurl at you. With love there is hope. No matter how cheesy that sounds. ^^;; I think it is worth to experience those sad painful feelings when you have experienced these beautiful feelings. We would never be able to appreciate those beautiful feelings if we have not experienced these painful feelings.

Hi there Laydee! You're right. Being in love is not like laying on a bed of roses. There are bumps along the road and sometimes, when you and your partner were not able to work it out, you will end up parting ways. The thing is that, we should learn from our experiences. These things prepare us for the real thing. They will make us stronger and would teach us to value our loved ones more. Of course, there were also times that you will feel devastated and would wish that you have not learn to love but life is not about not getting hurt but getting hurt but gaining more in the process. You should be wiser, stronger and you could gain wisdom too. I do not regret knowing love.

Love is a beautiful thing! I have always known love as beautiful and perhaps I am so blessed to have not known pain when it comes to my relationship. I have not had any falling out, no conflict, or no hurt. I married my first and last boyfriend and our love is growing day by day for , In fact we even love each other more than before. So I think I will not stop loving and will do so over and over again.

if we chose not to know love at all, we wouldnt know how sweet love can be...or how sour it is. the experience we got is what makes us think about love. dont target your achievement by what other says, but when you achieve it, you feel like...."this is what i've been looking for" thing like that

my vote is to know love, i dont want to be the one who has never and dont like to fall inlove. i lost at love before and took a rest from all of it.... but of course willing to try again. now i am married to my wife who is perfectly fit for me. love is a wonderful feeling and it makes us feel alive. so no matter how hurt i were with the past love i had i am willing to take a chance and see what i found.... a person that is perfectly fit for me

Love is a very great feeling where one cannot put in words..really it's only understood for the people who enjoy it..I have many moments lovely they are....Good luck to you friend..

Hello laydee, I have fallen in love but never to the level that i had to do everything based on what i feel. that's really hard but despite that i feel for them i never got to feel the pain. although i have felt humiliation but never despair in a level where i would kill myself for it. but still that has happened to you and going back in time won't make any differnce because you already know what love is.

Our lives can not be enriched without ever knowing love. If you do not have love presently in your life, you surely had love in ithe past that was meaningful. Any measure of love is worth the cost.

Hey Laydee, I agree with your each word. But above all, dear Love happens automatically, Without any intimation. We never know it is happening.