Love connection
By DanBen
@DanBen (346)
India
February 14, 2010 11:19pm CST
Have you ever fallen in love with the wrong person,and even when realizing the fact, still pursue that very relationship anyway??.
I did have a few crushes of my own, but steered clear from being involved or being entangled in the web of superficial love. I love or like a person based on their looks(outer appearance), which is obviously not a "good" idea. Like they say, don't judge a book by it's cover..
But fortunately till now, have not been following my untamed feelings for people of the opposite gender. i rather follow my gut feeling, than rather be repenting later for the consequences caused.
4 responses
@m310684 (35)
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15 Feb 10
I fell in love (and still in love) with a man whom I met 2 years ago. I'm not sure if he's the one or not and I'm not sure if he feels the same way. Right now I'm confused of whether to hold on till he comes back or let go. But I avoided getting too close to him because I'm not sure if I can handle a relationship with him..
@DanBen (346)
• India
15 Feb 10
Please don't get obsessed with things that you are certainly not sure of. This is my humble suggestion. Cause either way, you might end up broken hearted, knowingly or unknowingly.Do understand that not everyone responds to us the way we want them to. Keep your options open, and I'm sure that mr. right in shining armor will certainly sweep you off your feet and appreciate you for who you really are.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
..hi.. well, if that's how you want it to be then its fine as long as you're always ready for the consequences of your decision.. loving is a very special feeling and opportunity for us.. but being love is more than anything else.. the happiness felt if someone returns your love can't be explained enough by words.. I did have mistakes that until now I still regret.. I've fallen for the wrong guy.. maybe because during that time, it was only him who is always on my side.. I overlooked his weaknesses and "bad" attitude.. although all of us have their own weaknesses, but had I notice those earlier, I should have done something for him to improve.. and now that we're married, I always regret having fallen on him when I'm alone.. yeah, most of the time, I'm alone because he prefers going out most specially at night spending his time with his friends.. I hope I will find the strength to go on as the days pass by..
@Nirishasol (879)
• India
15 Feb 10
Yes when i was in class 12th i fall in love with guy who didn't love but i love him very much. I was mad in his love and he never care for me. But when i realized that we two are not made for each other then i broke up with him then after that he realized but i never return to him.
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.@DanBen (346)
• India
15 Feb 10
Love does hurt. Getting over previous relationship(s) drains you emotionally and physically. Cause to get in a relationship is time consuming, but worth the effort, but then again, once breaking up hits you like a ton of bricks, you are scarred for life. If you are an optimist and move on without taking any setbacks personally,then nothing mentioned above will actually be applicable to you.
