What would you do if you found out that your husband is gay?
By debshie
@debshie (392)
Philippines
February 15, 2010 6:01am CST
This is pretty weird, but I just saw on t.v. about a married couple having kids and all and then later did the wife knew that all along, her husband was gay. I have never thought about what would happen if this happened to me but what I saw made me think. Do you think this is reason enough to break the bond or should you keep going?
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4 responses
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
Well if the guy would not leave you and be faithful to you then why leave him. I think there are gay with successful family life like the Encarnacion and other famous gays that were able to maintain their family together better than those that have normal husbands.
But, if the husband is already getting involve with being promiscuous then it is better to leave him where he finds happiness in his life. And as for you then I guess time for you to move on with your life and what is left with your family.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
Well it depends on how the husband will stand. As I said there are families that can survive even if the father is known to be gay. I think it is up to an agreement between the wife and the father. For the wife I guess it will totally depend on how you will accept the situation of your husband. There are gays that can stand better then a true man but of course there are just gays that just cannot control the calling of the flesh.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Gays can still prefer having children as long as it's the will of the woman to be married to a gay and have children.I have a teacher who's gay but he has his own family but unfortunately, they were legally separated with his wife. The woman has the right to file an annulment or a divorce if she finds out that her husband was a gay because no matter how we search for reasons to it, the children are the one who will be greatly affected.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
Those things really do happen. I for one know of a friend who three-kids after the husband realizes he was gay and went on his gay way with her confused and stunned.
If that were to happen to me, then I can't do anything about it. First, I would certainly question my decision because how come I never noticed that in my partner before, right? But through and through as long as he did his part in our relationship and he irresponsible and all, then I could well say we'd be friends.
But still, embracing the truth is still a long way to achieve.
I do hope I won't go into that mess.
@quixotecybercafe (130)
• India
15 Feb 10
needless to say, this is one of the most difficult and complicated discussion that ever i had seen over on internet and any social networking website like mylot, lets i have started this discussion for replying you about this, definitely, if i would be there, i can't tolerate this situation no more at any cost and at any respect, this is complete cheating with her