Should a guy always spend for his girlfriend?

I think not. In this age chivalry doesn't mean spending for your girlfriend. I know there are some people who can do this but for me, I'd rather be able to pay for myself too. Not only does it boost my self esteem it also makes me more independent and respect my partner more. I'd like to think that being able to afford the things I like and I need is just a part of my own development so I wouldn't want my boyfriend to cuddle me and protect me all the time. If I have to work my butt off to afford a nice dinner so be it. Also a boyfriend who earns more than his girlfriend should also adjust to her financial capabilities so she wouldn't feel obliged to free ride. If my boyfriend is adamant on eating in a classy restaurant then it's his treat. Because if it's up to me we'd go to a place where I won't worry about burning my pocket too much.

What you heard about the spending is right - I have heard that too- but I feel that as long as they are together once in a while the girl should also spend- as marriage vows say they will share both joy & sorrows after marriage - so why not start this spending -sharing beforehand & practise this!!?? And yes in a new relationship when you start may be out of chivalry the boy can spend, but later when that is firmed up, I think there should be a two-way traffic.

it depends of the age. if teens guys are always expected to spend.... though it should always be a chip in. but in teenagers guys are always expected to spend for the girl that is why teen girls enjoys teen age life so much because of this har har har. but when you are matured already it always has to have a give and take. the guy spends today and on the next day the girl will spend or always split the total in half and both pays.

it is right to spend for your girlfriend especially when there are occasions,but not to the extent that you will spend all of your allowance for her. she must need to know that there are limitations with your spending. snacks and fare are okey, but material things which are too expensive is not already practical. spend wisely when it comes to girls!lol!

not really, at least not for me. i don't like to accept/use my bf's money, because (though i don't hope that) we are not going to be married in one or another reason. i don't wanna feel like i have 'debt' to pay.