When you meet people do you know if you will like them right away?

Hi xParanoiax. I don't shun them I just don't have much to say to someone I don't feel comfrotable around. They usually go away on their own. And if they don't I don't give them encouragement to come back either.

Hi Team rose. I too am a good judge of character and like you just cause I may not think that we will get along I don't treat others like I wouldn't like to be treated. I think it is important to treat people with some respect no matter who they are.

Hi Jambi. It is always nice when you can meet someone that just draws us near. I have met a few people that just instantly made me want to know them. I have also met people that instantly I just wanted an excuse to leave or to get them to leave. I think your right that some people give off the same electrical charge. And I think that is what draws us near.

Hi Verabear. It is nice when they turn out to be more in common with you. But most of the time if I don't listen to my intuition I land up getting hurt in the long run. I will always listen to my intuition. I have seen too much evil in this world not to listen.

Hi Assadi and welcome to my lot. Sometimes it takes longer for others to get to know people. I will always follow my intuition.

Hi Mady. It usually don't take me long to figure out that who ever I have met is either a good person or someone I really shouldn't trust. My intuition kicks in and I have to take that into reasoning.

Hi Chenxiaoyue_713. I think the article you read is right. Everyone does this. I really wanted to hear how everyone else thought about this. I like learning and hearing what others have to say.

Hi Shan. I go with my gut feeling it hasn't failed me yet.I haven't met a person that I didn't like right away. I have given many people many chances. But if I get a bad feeling it is usually right.

Hi Kay. You say it in words that make a lot of sense. Thank you. I am not judgmental but when I get these feelings it is usually right. I think it is wise to be cautious of people these days.

Hi MimiRemo. If someone gives off good vibes I will chat with them. You said it in a nut shell. Some people are just plain full of themselves. I never give out too much info about me to people I first meet. After we become real close friends I will tell them what they want to know.

Hi Fairytale. I think if we meet someone and give them a chance who knows they may turn out to be a real buddy. But then we are opening the door to all kinds of possibilities. I am a cautious person when it comes to some people. Wiser to be cautious then to be really hurt in the end. But in every situation we always learn from our mistakes.

Hi Laura. I think it is a good thing to go with your gut feeling. It has never failed me. I never give out info about me too much to anyone. Except my husband and his mother. It like you said is good common sense to watch what you say and to whom you say it too.

Hi Sassy. I call it intuition and it has never steered me wrong. As far as having a relationship with someone that I have met if I din't like them it won't happen. If for some reason they impressed me then I will invite them into our lives as associates at first. Then if it leads into friendships it is a good thing. But I have met some people that as soon as I met them, I would say no way would I ever want to know this person.I will give you an example. My husband and I was at these friends home. Some other people showed up and the woman was no lady. She embarrassed everyone. She was asked to leave. Loud mouth and every other word out of her mouth was a cuss word.

Hi Siankam and welcome to my lot. The physical part of a person isn't what makes me want to know someone. If they are decent people the ones that have a good heart and love the LORD then I want to know them. But I haven't met anyone around here that really speaks about God. And that bothers me. We would like to hang out with people that love the LORD. I take a person at what they are, if they act decent and are clean then that is what makes me want to hang out with them.

Hi Cream. I think it is a good thing to be cautious with people these days. When I was brought up if someone told you something then it was never spoke of again. Not to a living soul. Met too many people here that I wish I had never had the displeasure of ever knowing. It is hard these days to find someone you can spend time with that isn't in the friendship for something for themselves. When I want to be friends with someone it is because they share the same interest as me.

Hi Harshrosicky. No it don't mean they are shallowr or gulible. I have met people that I like right away and then I have met people that I dislike right away. To me it isn't judging someone it is decrement. Some People put on different faces when they meet people. God gave us all the ability to have decrement. This is Gods way to tell us that the person we are meeting is a good person or someone we really don't want to know. God is the only judge. God just wants us to be cautious. There is all kinds of evil in this world. And I believe that with decrement we can learn how to avoid being around evil people.

Hi Ianurag. I do think it is to use caution when meeting people these days. My husbands motto is 9 out of people you meet you really don't want to know. I never have been this way when I lived in LA but since moving I have found it better to believe my husbands way.