are you scared of loneliness?
By pree70
@pree70 (525)
India
February 17, 2010 9:58am CST
isn't the word 'loneliness' very scary? i was just thinking of how we all take our life and family for granted. we assume that this present scenario will be there for ever. but it is a sad fact that life changes. our parents die, our siblings go on their different ways, our children leave home to start their own life. in the end, we are alone in life.
i know that change is inevitable in life and that we should be prepared for any situation. but the very thought of being alone at some point in life scares me a lot. i pray to god to give me the strength and presence of mind to lead life happily and peacefully, and with good health, where ever i am.
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6 responses
@joaomacp (67)
• Portugal
17 Feb 10
I'm scared of loneliness too, and I think that lots of people are scared of losing parents, or other loved ones, and be alone. But as you said, those things are inevitable to everyone, so I guess every human has the inner strength of getting back up and being happy again.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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17 Feb 10
hi! No, i am not scared of it, because i am lonely/single from 4 months, I guess you mean lonely, like having no partner and not completely lonely. I think i can live without a girl by my side, well it will be better if i have some, but it is not a pain to die from, if i don't have any! :)
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@pree70 (525)
• India
20 Feb 10
you are just saying that because you have been single only since the past 4 months. but facing life alone, day by day for the past ten years has been quite tough for me. although i have learnt to survive, there have been times when i wish i had someone by my side. anyway, best wishes, friend.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Feb 10
yeah,maybe you are right, but you can always get some pet, because you know, they aer our best friends
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
17 Feb 10
No never.. i don't scared of loneliness.. because i like loneliness.. and i also lived many years lonely.. so now it is in my habit to like loneliness.. but sometime i get bored when i feel that now i am free.. so in that time i listen music.. and it is a good way for me.. to destroy loneliness.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
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@kmahony610 (123)
• United States
17 Feb 10
I was very lonely as a child and never thought I would find someone. I did not have a lot of friends. Now that have found someone I am still alon because my spouse travels for work and is only home once a month if that. I raise 2 kids alone and sometime I do feel very lonely still. I wonder if it is my destiny to feel alone or if I am supposed to learn how to deal with being alone....maybe there is a lesson in all of this. Well I don'y know but loneliess is a very hard thing to deal with. My kids are great but sometimes I need adult conversation face to face with a human. Those are hard to find.....humans...jk.
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