So nervous, need bless!
By shan0822
@shan0822 (433)
United States
February 17, 2010 12:48pm CST
Last month I set a resume to one of professor of my husbands' department. He didn't reply me, and today I kind met him during luch, and he want me to meet him 3:30pm to show me what his research about. I'm so nervous ringt now, never see that coming, I though he rejet me. But now, kind a interview for me.
I'm the person easily nervous, and I didn't know what to say and if he ask me question I really don't know what I should say. I have interview several times but I never did well. I think my first in
Oh, God, don't know what to do right now......I really need this offer right now, I don't want stay home anymore.
Hope you can understand my poor english!
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9 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
17 Feb 10
we do get nervous when we dont know what is instore for us. specially this one that is very important to you it is natural that you get nervous. well it is better that he interview you and want to have a talk with you, than rejecting you with you not knowing the reason. not knowing the reason you can not make it better. if he tells you what you need to do so that next time your research will be better then that is good. he might give you more pointers and good strategy so you can come up with a better one. dont worry.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
everything happens for a reason, maybe you still need time ot maybe there is much better than that. life is not easy ut it is exciting. this things adds spice to the life we are living. there are more to come, make sure you are ready for it. goodluck. put your head up.
@yushen1008 (357)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
i know exactly how you feel. i am in the same situation as you are, the nervous thing. i have been a bum too for a year now coz i'm really nervous on what will a job interview be. its not my first time to have a job, its just that every time there's a job interview, i do feel nervous and what follows next is that i'm totally lost. i just couldn't control it, wish there was a way to ease this nervousness.
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
i am like that too...
all my interviews i get nervous. they understand that. the most important thing you should do is always look the person in the eye when you are having a conversation and always be honest...
smile a little to loosen up a bit. hope this helps :)
and GOODLUCK!
@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
18 Feb 10
Wish you the best. I would advice you to study hard for your interview and if you know the areas in which you bluffed, you can correct yourself.
@kaylachan (69370)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Feb 10
I can understand it well enough, my English isn't perfect eaither and I don't claim it to be. But you just need to take a deep breath and relax. Trust in yourself and you should be fine. Its okay to be stressed out, everyone goes through that. The problem is how its handled. I'm sure you'll do well, as long as you let yourself believe it.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
22 Feb 10
First thing have confidence on you. You have capacity, enthusiasm to work and grasping capacity to learn the work. Then why should you be nervous? Your English is good. Do not under estimate yourself. Be bold and proceed with confidence. You will get good name. You will succeed in your attempt. Success Success everywhere success. Grab it my friend. You deserve it.
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
18 Feb 10
be yourself at the interview. he obviously thought of you and is interested in interviewing you. if he asks you a question answer truthfully. if you draw a blank tell him you feel nervous right not, but you will do the best job and work hard at the position he is offering you. i hope you get the job. let us know. the best to you.
@MagicalBubbles (5103)
• Canada
17 Feb 10
Im sending prayers your way Shan !!!
Why dont you tell the professor that you get nervous at interviews. We're all humans and Im sure he'll understand and he'll know!!
Try this trick....imagine yourself surrounded in GREEN light....they say green calmes the nerves. So try to wear something green and visualize you're totally surrounded in green. I know it'll help you calm down.
But, still the best way is to let him know you want this more than anything and you're nervous.
Let us know how you do.......bless you!!!
@shan0822 (433)
• United States
17 Feb 10
Thank you so much! I think I nervous beacuse I don't know what he will ask or what should I prepared. Everytime I finished my interview I just regret, I shouldn't do that or what I should say. I really need this offer.
Thank you so much, you have a good day!
