Do you trust your abilities?
By tutul0045
@tutul0045 (2630)
India
February 18, 2010 4:37am CST
Hey friends,
I have an important meeting this coming Monday. Its like i have to impress someone and get my work done through him. This guy whom iam going to meet is a tough one and doesn't get impressed easily.
My office mates and my seniors have chosen me to do this task and its quite a challenge for me to perform well here.
Now i wish to ask you all how u deal with such tricky situations in life ? Where in one side you have shown lots of promise and now its time to deliver and in the other side if things don't match properly yr position gets affected. U lose some respect which you have earned and also personally u start feeling down and start doubting yourself.
I would love to hear how different people handles situations like this?
Cheers,
Tutul
10 responses
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hi,
Yes believing in yourself can do lots of good. The things is some times u r not very sure whether u would be able to cross the line. Iam actually in that kind of situation now.
Anyways thanks for dropping by.
Cheers,
Tutul
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hey galia,
Yes I agree with u 100 %. I do believe in myself but sometimes the task ahead is some what very difficult and u have to bring out your best to resolve such issues.
This one is of such kind.
Cheers,
Tutul
@painkillerus (46)
• China
19 Feb 10
hi,tutu.This is a great issue to talk about when we need to solve all kinds of tough things in our daily life. Things can not be easliy resolved unless you do your best and show the brilliant side of yourself. Be confident, is a kind of trait that does most. Actually it's really hard to be confient when you meet a person is of more confidence and the best way to deal with it is that you just only need to be what you really are. You know, everyone is different from each other and just improve yourself by leaning new skills, communicating with more friends and so on. Be lucky.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
19 Feb 10
Hey,
Yes u have hit the head of the nail. Iam in a dilemma and i know that i have to solve it on my own. All my experience which i gathered i have to make use of that now. I have to make sure that i dont put up too much pressure on me and be able to express myself.
Lets hope for the best.
Cheers,
Tutul
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
18 Feb 10
I do trust my abilities. That is if I am doing something that is on my field. By the way you describe things, it is obvious that you can handle the situation quite well.. So don't worry and just be, be what you are. I am sure that you will surely live up to the challenge and perform well!
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hey,
Thanks. Now iam feeling better. Hope what u said comes true and things go well in the meeting. Iam keeping my fingers crossed.
Cheers,
Tutul
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
18 Feb 10
Hi tutul,
Look my friend, this is not how one would be impressed but how you present yourself. If your presentation is good and impressive surely the person you are supposed to meet would get impressed and your job would be done. First and foremost thing is that you must have thorough knowledge and command over the issue you are going to deliver. If you feel you are not fully equipped better not proceed. But this is my personal view only, I mean in such situation if I feel that I am not totally prepared I would not proceed and would ask somebody else to handle.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hey there,
Well u r absolutely right my dear friend but if its an official meeting. The case iam handling is official but not so official type of. Its something which i cant elaborate here but it will need some thing extra to resolve such matters.
In my profession u got to be flexible and u shd be multi talented i.e to react and resolve some very tricky situations.
Cheers,
Tutul
@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Feb 10
Just be yourself and prepare everything that you need to do. Be ready and practice days before and don't pretend that you know everything. Say No politely when you don't know the answer. That is than be caught pretending to know it when you really don't. Albert Einstein, one of the greatest minds in the history of mankind had said "Even I don't know everything" When you do know it, execute it with much confidence! That is how you get to impress VIP (Very Important People)
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
19 Feb 10
Hey,
Thanks for the tips. Hmm iam no Einstein but thanks for those encouraging words. Iam feeling better now. I will try my best and i will prepare myself before facing him actually. I know what to expect from him but still there is not harm in taking suggestions from people who have resolved similar situations.
Cheers,
Tutul
@abraham28 (32)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
yes I do trust my abilities cause if you do trust your abilities there's no way you to fail... and if you do trust your abilities you can answer all the questions and problems of people around you meaning to say that you will have the cinfidence not to go wrong in your field or endeavor...
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
19 Feb 10
Hey,
Thanks. Good to hear that u got the self confidence in you to face any challenges. Whatever u wrote is absolutely correct.
Cheers,
Tutul
@MrKennedy (1978)
•
18 Feb 10
I often trust my abilities, but sometimes, it's really difficult not to start doubting yourself, especially in the types of situation you descried tulu
The key is self-confidence. If you have that, then you will find that any self-doubt will be very rare
The key is self-confidence. If you have that, then you will find that any self-doubt will be very rare@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hi,
Yes indeed self confidence is the key. But u know its actually very tricky situation. It can go either way at the moment. If i succeed then it will be an experience to remember and If i dont then I would still learn something but the hard way.
I dont want to let down all the people who have trusted me for this job and lets give it a best shot and leave rest to the almighty.
Cheers,
Tutul
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hey,
Thats the way to go my friend. Good luck in life.
Cheers,
Tutul
@Nirishasol (879)
• India
18 Feb 10
Yes i do trust my abilities and i never let me down in front of everybody.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hey,
Wonderful my friend. Glad to know that u possess this quality.
Cheers,
Tutul
@myl0t1 (346)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 10
Absolutely, i often trust my ability. in my mind, every problem that come to me,certainly it has solution. so feel free and keep it simple do my the best. Do not give up before trying.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Feb 10
Hey,
Yes I will definitely try my best. No question about it and also too much thinking bat the consequences wont do any good.
Glad to know that u can find solutions to every problems.
Cheers,
Tutul
