At a beach , sharing bed with your friend and her boyfriend? Is it fine?
By dragonangel
@dragonangel (551)
February 18, 2010 11:09am CST
I had this very uncomfortable experience when I had a beach holiday along with my friend and her boyfriend.I was having fun and quite excited about it at first but turned out the other way around when I realized that we're going to share bed together. It's strange for me because even if we're very close, I am not that close to her boyfriend.And in my point of view, a beach setting holiday is a romantic time to be shared with. And with that setting, I felt so ill at ease.I never would have that same situation ever.
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@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
18 Feb 10
I don't know how you got through the vacation. I personally wouldn't have slept in the bed, I would have slept on the floor on on the couch. I think that it was very inconsiderate of your friend to put you in that situation. I would have talked to my friend and let her know that I didn't appreciate being in such a situation. I am very surprised that your friend was okay with it, I know that I would never let that happen. I don't blame you for being uncomfortable, it is a very strange situation to begin with. I hope that you at least had a good vacation aside from the sleeping arrangements. Happy mylotting.
@dragonangel (551)
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19 Feb 10
Yeah i did still enjoy the beach though but definintely not the sleeping arrangement.enjoy!
@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
18 Feb 10
I think it all depends on the situation. Once my best friend, my ex and I went on a road trip together and the 3 of us had to share a bed. I was in the middle and it wasn't awkward or anything like that, we were all just tired and wanted to sleep. As long as the couple isn't doing anything in the bed next to you then it should be fine. At least in my view.
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@dragonangel (551)
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19 Feb 10
In your situation, the three of you is equally as friends. So sleeping could be the primary goal. I know we women can endure for a night but definitely not men.
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@dragonangel (551)
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18 Feb 10
That would have been better but there wasn't any sofa that time and that the floor was freezingly cold.I had no choice.(hahahaha)Thanks for sharing friend.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
18 Feb 10
No it's not fine. It's very bad. I don't like this. Beach is very romantic and beautiful place. I heard about this that some people go there only share there bed there. But we can go beach with our parents also. Then imagine the situation.
So i don't like it and it's not fine.
@dragonangel (551)
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19 Feb 10
Yeah it's very strange after all. Thanks God the day went by so fast. But you see, that sleeping arrangement is fine with us ladies but i'm sure definitely not with her boyfriend.Gosh! Once is enough though.
@cloud31 (5809)
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19 Feb 10
Well i'd rather stay out of bed , i will just lying on the floor maybe or in a couch or in a mat perhaps.For me i think i won't be fall asleep knowing that im a sharing a bed with my friends boyfriend..I won't feel at ease either.I may stay awake all night long,,LOL
Happy Lotting and God bless!
@Kingco18 (33)
• United States
19 Feb 10
This is hilarious in my opinion. Knowing me, If I was put in that situation last minute. I would so snore, hog the covers, and grab whoever is close to me like a teddy bear. So next time, They will make sure to have a better sleeping arrangement. Then again I can be a Donkey at times.(just ask my wife :D)
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
19 Feb 10
This seems rather strange. May be a good idea that next time you either book your own room or ask about sleeping arrangements prior to agreeing to go.
This would be most awkward and still, regardless of cold, I would of took the floor or just went and got myself my own room.
I bet the beach was lovely. Although not a great enough pay off to warrant having to share a bed with your friend and her boyfriend too. This is just weird!
