Bad Words Makes A Healthier Heart?

I don't think cursing is a good way to release tension. I mean, you could just yell AAAAAA!!!! or something like that. Perhaps it does feel good to shout once in a while, but we all know that people who curse affect other people. Yes, they may feel better but the other people surrounding them would absorb the negative vibes, not to mention that often times when we curse at someone due to stress, you do regret it after.

I do not think so that it is really true. Anything negative will invite negative vibes in our lives. I have read somewhere about the power of words and one japanese Scientist named Dr. Emoto experimented it on water by placing them on a dark place and putting sounds or words negative and the other half was positive words. he left it there and frozen it and looked it up under a microscope and he saw there is a difference in the way molecules were arranged when exposed to negative and positive words. The positive words was arranged orderly and clear while the other is in disarrayed and disorderly. Remember that we humans are 80% water and we can really be affected by what we hear and see just like the water did.

bad words just come out. it dosen't make me feel better. i feel worse. i have a sinful nature where bad words come out especially in anger. i can control it if i think about it. it is a uphill battle.

hi neildc no I do not believe yelling obscenities is going to make my heart healthier. if might get my block knoced off though and I 'go not think that would be heart healthy. You can express your anger without using cuss words. for example I use to do this when I was upset with a caustic patient, I would go into the utility room, find the trash can, swing my foot back and kick that can really hard while yelling you nasty dirty old tin can patient, why must you be so mean, you old so and so, take that and that and that. wap wap wap. zowie.

Well I'm glad I have learned to control my tongue from uttering bad words no matter how angry I am. I mean I can be angry and confront the person who stirred up my anger but I need not sin by uttering bad words to him. I would rather tackle the issue and let him know what caused my anger and for him to realize the wrong he has done. I can always express my anger without using foul language. I want to set good examples to my little ones. I always tell them not to speak bad words so I should practice what I preach. Bad words indeed satisfies a person's madness and hatred but I don't need to go to the extent of being mad and hateful in the midst of anger. Anger is an emotion that could be expressed without going beyond the limit. An angry person could be respectable and could still avoid hurting the person who angered him. If an angry person would only know how to avoid bad words then his anger would not progress into strife but rather into reconciliation.

Sometime coz it is one way of releasing my anger... but do you think that those words are really bad.... for me NO... its just how you understand, think, and deliver those words....

Temporarily the bad words might soothe the anger heart!!!but the consciousness of using the bad words against member of society will deplete the inner joy. Imagine the mental status of other fellow who has to hear the bad words ! ! ! !

I don't think it is bad to feel anger but to say things that are hurtful, I think that is another thing. I don't curse and I don't think that cursing does any good at all. I mean, I understand if someone is angry and they can't just keep all that emotions bottled up, but I don't think that anger should be expressed by cursing. I especially don't like it when people curse while there are children around. They should be more considerate and be more careful not to teach small kids the wrong things.

Hi Neil, The one thing I hate is using bad language, even when angry. There are other words you can use which can mean the same and let people know you are angry, even baffling brains with science the way you use words lets people know you are angry and that is normally what I do and makes me feel better. It also takes a lot to get me angry, but when I blow I blow and people know about it.. LoLo

Dear neildc.... My sibling have been taught not to said the bad word by our mother and until now..i still cannot say the bad words even when i so mad !!!hehehehe..remember my mom always say that if we, the kids said the BAD words, our teeth will fall out!!..so scared to hear that!!...hehehehe..but it works to us .. To me ..we need to refrain ourselves to say the bad words since it will show your attitude..or your true color towards the people around you!!..There's other way to express your anger! Yelling or talking BAD WORDS around the kids will effect their upbringing and will introduce to a bad mouth society..we need to remember that children learns from the adult!!

...Hi neildc, When I get really angry, I don't get loud, I get very quiet and people who know me back off. Once when I was working as an examiner and I turned in a negative report on the head of security. He came into a conference room where we were working, I was there by myself. He was hollering loud, and ranting about the report, so I sat there and looked at him while he screamed at me. Instead of hollering back, I very quietly said to him, why don't you sit down and let's talk about the report. I said it so quietly that it broke him down, he had no where to go, with his rant as he couldn't start hollering again, I had stolen his rage. I scream bad words when I am by myself, it is a sort of release, and s**t sounds better somehow than shoot or stuff. So I think bad words can be a destresser in a way. No kids around here so no worry about that. Take care.

hello, i think i agree on you... it is better is speak those words out rather than keeping it inside of you... especially to those person you hate the most....

Bad words make me feel better if I am angry at anyone, it helps in taking out the rage that we have inside of us with out harm. But ya i do not tend to say any bad words in front of little kids. Bad words could also have a bad affect, like it may rise your blood pressure, if you have a blood pressure problem it could be fatal. Bad words can provoke the other person and it may result in a fight. At the end of the day I feel it is a good stress buster, and it should be kept away from children.

I think that if you're angry and you say bad words it will kinda make you feel better but I don't think that saying bad words just to release anger is really wrong because we shouldn't say bad words. I always bad words but now that I read about this topic I will do my best not say bad words anymore even when I'm angry because it isn't right. I know the feeling when you're angry and say bad words and it is kinda refreshing but it is wrong.

Hi Neil, I think anger itself is bad for you but its best not to yell bad words, I always say "SUGAR" or "SHOOT" kids will use bad words if they hear it from adults which is not nice, when I was young, if my mother hear us using bad words, she will give us a slap, so bad words can be very painful, lol! hugs. Tamara