What is your biggest fear in life?
By silvercoin
@silvercoin (2101)
Lithuania
February 19, 2010 2:22pm CST
We all have fears, and it doesn't mean that we're weak.I believe that we are afraid of things we can't control and here's where those fears come from.My biggest fear is to fall in love.This wonderful feeling scares me more than the death itself.
And I keep my heart locked because of this fear.
What about you?What is your biggest fear?Have you overcome it?
And I keep my heart locked because of this fear.
What about you?What is your biggest fear?Have you overcome it?1 person likes this
7 responses
@dencher315 (155)
• Philippines
19 Feb 10
Hi silvercoin,
My biggest fear in life is to die unprepared emotionally, spiritually, and financially for my loved ones. I am still working hard for these. lol
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@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
19 Feb 10
It's impossible to prepare for this, but we can try.
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@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
19 Feb 10
My biggest fear is don't want to hurt my parents. I really afraid on it. I love them so much. I know some people who hurts there parents. But i don't want to hurt them.
I didn't hurt them yet. Hope i will not.
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
19 Feb 10
Oh, that's really sad,Pat.I think my life would be over if I couldn't communicate anymore.
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
19 Feb 10
Hi Silver! I'd be willing to bet that your fear is not so much falling in love. It's what happens if love ends. Sort of like free falling if you parachute out of a plane. It's not the fall, it's the landing if your shute doesn't open. Don't be afraid (easier said than done), that's what your friends are here for. Besides, if you watch comedy, love gone bad generates a good part of the material. Once you get over the hurdle, it is very healing to find humor in the experience. 
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
19 Feb 10
Oops..I didn't answer your question. My biggest fear is to have something happen to my son. I just found out that a girlfriend's son was murdered yesterday in New Jersey, and it's been really upsetting because (besides the obvious) he was the same age my son is.
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
19 Feb 10
You're right,I'm afraid of losing love, not falling in love.Painful landing!
I understand your fear.I believe he avoids dangerous places and persons.Your love protects him too.
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@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
my biggest fear in life is to die without doing what i really wanted to do in my life. and so right now, i tried to do things whatever i want, eat everything i want and go anywhere. as long as im not doing anything that will ruin myself and my family's reputation. though i got pregnant and the father is no where to found but i will still keep the baby. maybe god have reason why. i dont want to abort it coz if i do then what if someday i will no longer have the capacity to have a child. besides i have my degree not just one but two, so it will not be hard for me to find better job to support my child.
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
20 Feb 10
My cousin's a single mother.Her parents helped her to raise her son.Now he's 16 years old.He's a very nice guy.I strongly believe that it would have been a big mistake for her to do an abortion then.It's your life,live it to the fullest.
@teamrose (1492)
• United States
19 Feb 10
My biggest fear is to become homeless. Suppose I was not able to make a living and there was no welfare available for me. What would I do. People used to tell me that is an irrational fear, but after seeing what happened to those people during hurricane Karina and the people in Haiti, the fear is more real.
@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
19 Feb 10
It's real, but let's hope it won't happen to you.It's important to have a few friends you can trust with your life.I really wouldn't leave my friend without food and shelter.I hope they would do the same for me.
