What would you do if you find your spouse in bed with another person?

I think I would cry, and shout, and throw things, and swear. And walk out maybe? I'm not really sure.. I don't know what I can and I will do if put in that situation. Cause there'll be a lot of emotions, like rage, and hurt and shame, and you cannot really say what people are capable of doing on situations like that. I hope I'll never experience that though.

I would definitely kill them both. Especially the girl first. I would inflict so much pain in her she would have to beg to stop doing it. I would make her feel how things are gonna get ugly since she choose to sleep with my husband. She'e better be not the person I know. After I kill her ( not literally though) I would make her wish she was never born and she would be ashamed looking at her face in the mirror.

Um I wouldnt be too happy because in the first place it is my house and my bed. it is really very difficult when someone you love betrays you in such an uncaring fashion. FortunATELY i don't think I will ever have to deal with such a situation.

Do you mean before I shoot him? Actually, I can't imagine what I would do because my husband is 62 years old so, to him, sleeping around means taking a nap on the couch instead of in the bed. He's also too decent of a person to disrespect me, our marriage or our home like that. He'd run off with her first...after his nap.

I can tell you from expeience, that I know what I DID. I whipped my husband and was trying to whip her but he helped her get lose.

I would pack up my stuff, wish them the best, move out and never see her face against except to sign the divorce papers, and only if I couldn't find someone else to go get her to sign.

First, tell the other person to get their things and leave immediately before you lose your mind. Second, tell your spouse to get into the living room and ask your spouse "Why?" Third, either tell your spouse to leave your home for a while, or you take your things and get away from him/her for a while, your choice. Last, this is up to you, stay with them and try to work it out via "marriage counseling", or start signing divorce papers if you think that the marriage just isn't worth saving. Personally, I would get all of my things, leave, get the divorce papers, and tell him to sign it because I know that if he has done it once, then there is nothing to stop him from doing it again.

i couldn't go back with my husband again if he was in our bed with another woman. i don't think he loves me or respects me if he does this. also this means even if he were seeing another woman behind my back somewhere else. i would be out of there and fast.

I never seen them but i had some evidence that he slept with his woman in our own bed when i was not there.I felt disrespected.I did love him but i think i had done enough to show it to him.It's time to love myself more and whats important for me was to give my daughter a family of respect and honor.I decided to leave him.What i had seen was enough reason to move on with my life with my child.I deserve a better man that respect and love me.He not only hurt me physically but he also hurt me emotionally.

My initial reaction would be, shocked.. then maybe i would cry, yell and throw things... i don't know.. it's a real scary thought of seeing your spouse in bed with another person.. i don't want this to happen, ever! i might do something real bad, argh

If I found my better half in bed with another women I would go totally beserk and someone will be hurt if not both. I once found my ex sleeping in another girls house. She was not there but I know she was. I trashed the house out of anger and got rid of the man. Disrespect once they will continue to do it so why waste my time.

Since I have never been in this situation, I wouldn't really know what I would actually do in reality. However, I definitely know I would be a VERY angry man The "red mist" would fall over me, and my instant reaction would be to beat the living daylights out of whoever had the audacity to sleep with my partner behind my back

Well its unexplainable mixed emotions i would have,like i will be get so much of disgrace,so much for hatred,and i think its just like the end of the world but maybe its just at that moment of course i can easily take chance to move on myself. I just had one word to utter at that moment"Thank You for knowing you and this is the time to Forget YOU"..And promise i wont shed a tear for what i've witnessed.He made me as strong as he don't expect me to be.. Happy Lotting..God bless!

i have to divorce her.. because it against my religions. Man have nothing to lose.

Simply I am anger and maybe i killed that them if found they are doing sin. This is natural reaction, my friend. Yes, this is the worst case in every aspect of married. Husband and wife also committed those acts of cheating...

When I see my husband doing it with another girl and in our own bed, maybe, I'll shout at them, I'll curse my husband for doing it, I'll throw them out of the house, and lastly, I'll file for legal separation. Much as I want to kill them, especially my husband, I can't do so because I have children to take care. The bed? I'll put it on fire outside the house, of course!