Which will hurt you most?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
February 19, 2010 7:07pm CST
Which will hurt you most, a best friend who sleep with your girlfriend,boyfriend, partner or a partner who cheated you? Who do you think you can forgive first, your best friend or partner?
8 responses
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
20 Feb 10
I would have to say that i would never forgive either of them.The reason i would never forgive either of them is because neither of them would not have thought about me or my feelings when they were doing what they were doing so my feeling for what they had done aswell as what they stood for would not stand for anything apart from hatered.I would also ensure that everyone they knew also knew what they had done.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
Yeah, it could be real hard to forgive both of them, as you trusted them both and they betray you. I like what you said that you're going to let everyone knows what they've done, that's the best thing we should do and they deserve it.lol Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your weekends!
@mizzk1 (56)
• United States
20 Feb 10
well my opinion it would be my best friend cheated on me with my boyfriend!!! Because when u look at it....its the same thing;; but in one situation you got 2 ppl that u really care about hurting you. Then where your bf/gf who cheated;; So i would have to go with the best friend who sleeps with my boyfriend
@simonelee (2715)
• China
20 Feb 10
Hello there. For me it's still the same either my best friend slept with my partner or my partner cheated me. It's the same story, the pain is still the same. I can't tell i can forgive any of them because the pain they created is unforgiving.... I guess it will took me months or years before i can forgive them. WE have different views but i can't forgive them easily.
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@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
I never had something like this happened to my life. but I think both of them will be very hurt me. I can't take that my best friend sleeps with my partner but I also can't imagine that my partner will cheat me on that way. but if it's happened, I wouldn't blame my best friend cos it's about my partner. if my partner didn't give a change, it won't happened. but it doesn't mean I'll forgive one of them. I'll hate them instead and of course never forget bout this in the whole my life..cos it's too painful to forgive and forget..
@shambhukumar (763)
• India
20 Feb 10
Every relation is on trust. i think each of the above mentioned will hurt me. we are in relation because we trust each other. if some one betrays you for which you trusted her/him then it will hurt you.
i think when my partner will cheat with me then it will hurt me most.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
i now its painful and its hard to accept the fact but you cant hold or control someone else heart. its not that theres something wrong with you or them. as for me maybe its a lesson to learn of not to let my boyfriend be comfortable with any of my friends nor let them be close to my boyfriend. and that i shouldnt trust not just my friend but also my boyfriend. thats why it is important to have respect to myself and love myself more so that in anything that happened like this then it will not as hurt as it is since i love myself more than them and not let myself move around them. its a big lose to both of them, first my friend lose a very special friend whose always be there for here and my boyfriend lose a very nice girl that showed him a real and true love, that he might not meet another girl like me again. they might not realize it for now coz they're still happy with each other but somehow they will.
