When walking down the street, do you look up or down?

@veromar (1453)
Argentina
February 19, 2010 10:23pm CST
I was always told that if you look down, it shows a lack of self-esteem or lack of self-confidence. However, if you look down, sometimes you can find some great stuff on the street. lol. I find that I look down until someone else approaches. Then I will usually look them in the face and try to make eye contact. Most people at that point look down. What are they afraid of? I've been very fortunate to find some pretty cool stuff while looking down as walking. Everything from money to lottery tickets. What about you? Does it make you uncomfortable to look at people as you're walking down the street?
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@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
20 Feb 10
When I was in high school, I always look down while walking to the bus stop. It was only much later when I realize that it's how I always got those small green worms on my shoulder without me knowing, because I was looking down and not up or straight. And since then, I trained myself to look straight instead of down but it's really hard to kick the habit especially sometimes looking down does help to avoid stranger's eye contact and also, whatever that's on the floor such as a branch or a pool of water that might cause you injuries.
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@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
21 Feb 10
What "small green worms" are you talking about? Are these actual worms that fell from the trees as you were walking under them? I'm intrigued. I also had to train myself to look up or straight ahead. Directly in front of me instead of looking at the ground. It took me a few years but mine came from shyness. Does it make you uncomfortable to make eye contact with strangers? Do you find that when someone approaches you that you automatically cast your eyes downward?
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
21 Feb 10
I am not sure what they are but they are very small light green color worms. The few occasions that I got them on my shoulder was always after a rain so I am assuming that they fell from the trees. Like spider, they seems to have the "web" kind of string that allows them to be "hanging down" from the tree. And indeed, it's hard to change the "looking down" habit of mine but because now I have to brave myself for interview, so I have to have eye contact with them as well. I will automatically look away but not downwards when the person is asking me to do something, for example a survey etc
• United States
20 Feb 10
To tell you the truth I think I do both. I have never really paid attention to whether I look up more or down more. I can tell you I have spotted things on the ground before. I can also tell you that I am always aware of my surroundings, as well. So, if I had to guess I think it is a 50/50 split. For me it has nothing to do with self-esteem or the lack of it. It is just whatever happens to catch my attention at the moment.
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@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
21 Feb 10
I think doing both is normal. Have you been fortunate to find interesting or valuable things on the ground? I think most of us are innately aware of our surroundings. All of our senses play a part, not just our sight. What do you find draws your attention more? Sounds, approaching people, possible pitfalls?
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
as for me, sometimes it depends on my mood. i pretty much look at the floor when i feel upset and don't want to see anybody. or when i'm thinking about something or figuring out what to do when i'm in a difficult situation. i do sometimes find money while walking which pretty much brightens my day. (: when i'm in a really good mood i look at the sky and can't help but smile.. kinda sounds corny.. i do look at other people in the eye but also lower my gaze when i feel like thats too much eye contact... especially with males. umm sometimes it creeps me out. hahaha ^^
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
hmmm... thinking about it, the weather don't affect much of my gaze. but when i'm in a good mood and its sunny, it sometimes heighten the mood. as for too much eye contact, when i feel uneasy then i guess that's too much eye contact for me. ^^
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
Seems to be general human behavior....avoid looking at people when in a foul mood or just need to "be alone". I also have a tendency to look down when I'm pondering a particularly difficult phase in life or something I'm experiencing that just needs my undivided attention. In looking at the sky when your in a good mood, is it the same when the skies are overcast? Does the weather affect where you look? How much is too much eye contact? I always look someone in the eye when they approach. I go by my "feeling" as when to lower my gaze. I agree...sometimes catching someone's eye can be a little creepy.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 Feb 10
No, i like to look people in the eye. I don't know why, but if i look down the whole time, i might end up having a nasty accident with a lamppost or something.LOL. But if you like looking down and finding things lying aroud, enjoy. They do say ''finders keepers.'' TATA.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
16 Mar 10
Well Saphrina, I'd say it just shows that you've got some self-confidence. You go girl! lol. I just can't help feeling bad for people who've lost something that might be of value to them. It's just my nature. If they are things that have some sort of identification, I usually drop them in the post office. Most of the little trinkets I've found I either give away to somebody but there are a few I've kept that I keep in a little "goodie" box. lol. You never know if there might be some use for.....a Hillary Clinton lighter.....a Smurf plastic figurine....cool key chains....etc........lol
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
Do you find that people return your gaze when you look them in the eye? Who looks away first? What causes you to look away? The fact that they do or something in the eye to eye contact? "Finders keepers". Yeah! lol. Sometimes I feel bad though....I've found some jewelry, books, things that may have been of value to someone but no way to get it back to them.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
21 Feb 10
They normally look away first. I am very proud of my stare or glare, whichever. But for the thingies you pick up, no offense, it will only teach people to take better care of their things, doesn't it?
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
There are two things that force a person to look down as I know. One is exhaustion and the other avoidance. If a person is exhausted, he has trouble looking straight ahead and then the misconception that they have low self-esteem or they are shy arises foolishly. If someone tries to avoid somebody he can also look down because the straight look might be interpreted by the viewing person as intimidation or harassment because some women are suspecting and sensitive. They have doubts about the other person and they become anxious about it so out of respect to the gals the people just look down to keep the peace intact.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
21 Feb 10
Ok. Two very legitimate reasons for looking down. I'd say avoidance is probably more common than exhaustion. I'd fathom a guess that most people don't immediately assume that a person they encounter walking along with their eyes downcast has low self-esteem or are shy. Most people probably don't even give it a second thought as they are into their own reality and space. Hmmmm. Why is it that you say "some women are suspecting or sensitive" because they receive a "straight look"? Is it true? Men will look downward out of respect for the gals? Does that happen as a result from the women looking away?
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
well, I don't really notice, but I usually walk looking straight ahead. From time to time, I would look up or down. You gave me an idea to look down, hoping to find something interesting, lol.;)
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
21 Feb 10
Seriously, you never know what you might find laying on the ground. It doesn't happen that often but it does happen. To find some little gem. Seriously....you don't notice where you're looking when walking? When you're talking about walking, are you in an urban or suburban area?
@23uday (2997)
• India
21 Feb 10
hi friend, I usually walk with my cofidence when i in street. When walking in street i look up and down every seconds. I look every thing in street side when on my way. have a good day.
• United States
21 Feb 10
No. I walk as often as I can, and I live in an extremely elite downtown neighborhood. Lot of the people walk around with their noses up. I always speak, usually the man will respond more often than the woman. Now if I meet a woman alone and speak, she will respond. By the way, I have also found interesting things when looking down, and some things I didn't want to see.
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
it will be a better idea if you look at eye level,then look down at up and down from time to time.you will look at eye level and this will help you see people or objects you might bump into.you will look down and see some pretty cool stuff that might be lying on the ground.you can look up and see what may fall on you.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
Lol. Ok. I'll admit that I hadn't thought about the possibility of falling objects when I posed the question but it's a very legitimate point. lol. Looking at eye level seems to be the general consensus from those who have responded.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
20 Feb 10
I look straight forward. My periphial (sp.. lord I cant spell today!) enables me to see slightly to the left and right, and I can see any obstacles before me before I come to that spot. I'm not sure what's to be gained by looking up, except to enjoy the above head level scenery or weather, and I certainly won't look down because I don't wish for others to mistake that as a sign of weakness and lack of confidence.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
I guess I should have clarified. I didn't really mean to look up like you're looking into the sky. Straight forward. Street level is more what I meant as opposed to looking down at your feet. Peripheral vision is extremely important when walking out in the open. You brought up a good point there. I completely forgot to take that into consideration when I posed the question.
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
while walking i look eye level straight ahead unless i need to read a sign located at the upper part or if theres something to look downward like a manhole or something. its ot advisable to look down as you will bump with the things infront of you while walking nor if you look up you might not see the man hole or step down. eye level is still better.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
So it sounds like your eye wanders. Kinda taking it all in as you walk along. Careful not to step on or in anything and yet seeing what's up ahead. Do you find that you tend to make eye contact with those approaching or avoid their gaze?
@nocturn98 (956)
• Venezuela
20 Feb 10
When I'm walking down the street, I always look straight. I can see what's up or down from a distance if I look straight. When I'm crossing the street, I look left and right then straight ahead.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
Sounds like maybe the voice of your parents may be ringing in your ears. "Look both ways before crossing the street."
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
Well for me, I usually look up. Hoping for a blessing from up above.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
What kind of blessing? Is it some sort of "spiritual" thing you are referring to?
• Singapore
20 Feb 10
i usually look down at whats 1 metre ahead of me so i don't trip. and up if theres a sign or something that catches my attention. Seldom I make eye contact with a person, unless that person is someone i know.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
20 Feb 10
Do you deliberately avoid making eye contact with people? How do you know it's somebody that you know unless you're looking up? Eyes are amazing, aren't they? With just looking ahead slightly, we can see so much of what's coming!
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
20 Feb 10
Hi, veromar. When I am walking, I may look down when I see a person. But, that is only when I am ashamed or am acting like I am looking for something. Normally, I would just look straight ahead and I would smile and say hello to whomever is passing me. This pass goes by really quick. So, just looking at them briefly is all that I would have to do.
@much2say (56964)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Feb 10
My eyes are all over the place - ha ha. I'm a multi-tasking looker !! Most of the time I have to have an eye on my 5 year old as she is a run about kid . . . while making sure we don't run into anything. And mostly I'm basically watching where I'm going - which could mean up or down. As a female, I like to make it seem I am totally aware of what I'm doing . . . otherwise it's possible to fall victim to some purse snatcher or car hijacker - if you know what I mean. I like eye contact with people too . . . most people must think I look younger than I am as I'm short and petite as I have my 2 kids, so they look at me weird - hee hee. I like being the friendly sort!
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
neither, veromar. i normally look eye level. i only look a little up when there's something i should see over eye level, say the traffic light. i also look down, when there's something, as warned by a street sign, on the road i should avoid. most of the time, however, i maintain an eye-level view. this is important, particularly in a crowded street, when you don't want to bump the person on the opposite way or getting bumped by the person coming your way.
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
I prefer to look down than looking up. It is just my safety measures. Afraid of manholes, elevated terrain and especially poop.