So, What are man looking for..in a woman?

@cloud31 (5809)
February 19, 2010 10:27pm CST
hello guys I have three things in mind which i think a man looking for a woman to be their partner.I don't have anything more aside from this three..You guys may want to give an extension of what man looking for a woman.. First thing man looking for is their "SOULMATE"...they think there's no right time for right LOVE..Most man thinks time is not a matter,they mind about the "The Right Person". Second..."The Maternal instinct" specifically someone who can be a good mother. Third ..."An Equal partner" in all aspects of their lives they want woman to be an equal partner,financially,emotionally and so on! Do you have any other things in mind to finalize this topic? You are very welcome to share your opinion to this.. Thank you and Happy Lotting!Good day everyone!
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7 responses
20 Feb 10
Obviously the first attraction has to be what they look like, It's not the only important thing but I think you need to be attracted to them in the first place otherwise there's not really any hope there. Next would be their personality, I like someone who shared the same love for Music as me and who made me laugh, Someone I have a discussion about Politics with and who kept an interest in what was going on in the world and what kind of person she was. As someone who would love to have Kids I would of course think about whether I could see us having Kids together and how that may work out, These are the main things I would think about.
@cloud31 (5809)
20 Feb 10
That's nice thing to consider.Thank you and Happy Lotting!
• India
20 Feb 10
hi,i think that each person have their own thinking for women,but there are somethings that a man think in a wonan,one is smart looking and the other is intelligent,after that they goes for the other things i.e. soulmate,equal partner and maternal instinct...
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Hi cloudie! First of all, let me say that I agree with those three things you have mentioned. That is the three things a serious man is searching for a woman. The first one about the soulmate, it means that there is someone out there who is destined to be my partner. It doesn't matter where and how we have met, if she is really my soulmate, then there's no coincidence. I would really feel deep inside that she is my soulmate. Second the maternal instinct, yes, we guys also consider this, how can this girl be a mother in the future. Of course she should know how to care and how to bring comfort to me and to our children in the future. A girl who knows how to cook is a plus factor. Third, an equal partner, it means we are searching for a girl who can love us in return. Someone who can also be faithful to me and who will accept me for who and what I am, despite of my flaws and weaknesses. We should have a connection, emotionally and intellectually. It also means that we are searching for a girl who can be a good wife to me, loving, caring and sweet. Aside from those three, we guys wanted a girl who knows how to carry herself. Meaning she is respectable, knows how deal with people, knows to pick her clothes, move gracefully, with etiquette, and knows how make herself beautiful. Aside from that I am also expecting my girl to be a God-fearing person. One who prays a lot and afraid to commit sins. These are the things I am looking in a woman. Have a nice day and happy myLotting!
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
For me not the man looking also the woman it's kind of same motive like they have the same desire of there life the the emotion equal exact the feeling that they love each other.
@cloud31 (5809)
20 Feb 10
You mean having the same feeling with each other, in life and in emotions? Love in short term..Yes man will consider Love when looking for a woman of course unless otherwise its just for fun. Happy Lotting and God bless!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 Feb 10
Well, trust, respect and humor comes to mind. But unfortunately most men just don't care about things like that. TATA.
@cloud31 (5809)
20 Feb 10
Yes you are right most men will just care how woman will satisfy them in some way like beauty etc.but not with trust and respect. Thank you for responding and Happy lotting!
@prasunsam (356)
• India
20 Feb 10
Well i think the most important thing that a lady should have is a good character and then the rest would follow.If she has good character then she would be confident of herself and that confidence would reflect in her beauty. After acquiring these qualities she could become anything, a good mother,wife,daughter .....anything.
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
A good woman sharpens a blunt man and a good woman is not blunt herself. The weird thing is that women were so busy with other things that they do not like to sharpen their blunt man and when the blunt man offends the woman they find him unfair when they themselves are at fault for not sharpening a man. Women must see that they have the tools to keep men strong and smart - beauty, nice voice, good love, nice smile and more not mentioned.