How important is a mother to a child????

India
February 20, 2010 6:49am CST
hi guys, how a mother is important to a child? A child can be grown up without a mother but what do you think about it? some children will loose their mom on their very small age and they long for the mother's care a lot.no one can replace a mother upto me.my sister gave birth to her cute small baby and she passed away due to te carelessness of a idiotic doctor,and so we employ a nurse to take care of that babe.its a very sad thing and i wish this shouldn happen to others.none else can grow a child as good as a mother does.what's upto you??
2 people like this
17 responses
@summer77 (414)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
Hi! I grew up with a mother (and father) so I don't exactly know how it feels like to grow up with no mom. But I think it would be hard. I've seen movies some are true stories, and most of child who grew without a mom (or dad) would be really emotional something and sometimes jealous, hoping that they have a mom, too! I grew up with my parents and I can see the difference between a mother and father. And I can say it is still different if you have your mom (or a dad). I wouldn't know how it feels to grow up with no mom. About what happen to your sister, did she sue the doctor? What happened actually? If you don't mind.
• India
21 Feb 10
the baby weighted 4 kgs actually.generally a baby above a normal wait shouldn be waited for a normal delivery but the doctor tried for a normal delivery so the ovary kept bleeding and it did not stop and it was actually a specilised hospital we dint expect this from that doctor if she had taken her to some other hospital we could have saved her but they kept trying for 2 hrs to stop the bleeding.you know her lips was full of wounds she had bit it that much in her pain.i wish none should sufffer like this.
@summer77 (414)
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
Oh. I have never encountered such case in the hospital. The bleeding must be really bad. Bleeding is normal after the baby went out especially if the perineum was cut if the baby is too big but we counteract by pressing or putting a pressure in the wound area, and stitching the perineum. I'm no expert, I'm still a student but that's how we do it. Maybe the bleeding was really severe. Is it really the fault of the doctor? Did he do his/her best to save the mother or what he did wasn't enough? Well it will be a negligence then you can sue the doctor if it is his failure.
• India
21 Feb 10
ya knowing the baby is not in a normal weight she should have gone for sciserian but she dint do it and also she has waited the bleedind will stop by itself for 1 hr and 30 mins.she has suffered much that time imagine how she would have felt those time its so horrible.great to know you as a doctor all the best for your career.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
in general, a child who grew up without a mother's love, have a labile nature emotional, hard and often out of control. Unlike the children who grew up in the love of a mother who generally have the power to control his emotions on a regular basis, more sensitive to the situation and are usually more rational priority
• India
20 Feb 10
it's a great point.i have seen many examples of what you say but it dint strike me so far.thanks.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
21 Feb 10
A child raised without their own Mom is sometimes a lost soul for years. They have a hole in their heart that is not filled. A child I believe will lack self esteem and security not being raised by their mother. Its a very sad thing for a child to go thru. However, if its a baby and its given to a female to take care of and raise the child will connect with this female, I believe. I'm not sure if the child will grow up realizing this female was not her birth mother.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Feb 10
As far as I am concerned, I think the mother is so important to a child who is in need of mother's care. A mother can do a lot of help to child who is so young to grow up. The mother can raise him to be older. A mother can teach him when he wa so young. A lot of knowledge will be understand by the child who taugh by the mother.If there is no mother companied by, How the child will be.Maybe do a lot harm to the world.
• Canada
21 Feb 10
Hello Thunderbala. Im so sorry about your sister passing away because of some stupid doctor. HE should be held responsible. I have a friend who was abandoned at birth by her mother and her father had left as soon as the mother was pregnant. She was raised by nuns, lived with them at the convent, studied to be a nurse, met a nice man, married him at the convent and also had her honeymoon in a cute cottage they had on the convent's property. She's divorced today, has 2 children herself and is living with her daughter's family. She's the most loving person I know and is very well balanced emotionally. You're right, nobody can replace the love of a mother and no matter what age you are when you lose your mom, its like losing part of yourself and you never EVER get over it.
@tpaz11 (76)
• United States
21 Feb 10
A mother is very important to a child. She is the first person in the world that cares for the child, loves the child, protects the child, nurtures him/her, and she continues to do so throughout there lives. A moter is there for the child since the beginning til the end. And always watches the child so it can remain safe. A child relies on the mother to give them what they need, food, water, shelter, love, a person they know will always be there. They are the first teachers to a child, they teach them how to talk, grow right, eat well, survive. That is why a mother is important to a child. I am also very sorry for what happened to your sister. Things like that happen because of irresponsible doctors who never watch what they are doing. And hopefully this won't happen to anyone else.
• Malaysia
20 Feb 10
hie, a mother's bonding with her child is essential. the child when formed in the mother's womb heard the mother's voice first. the child knows and feels the mother's care, love concern and her emotions. thus his first relationship is with his mother. if i am not mistaken, the first organ in the baby to be formed and developed fully is the ears.the baby can hear well in the womb. if the child cannot be with his mother when born, the child would definitely feels something amiss. however a baby brought up and nurtured by another person can grow up as a well balanced child when he is given love and attention. a child grows up confidently when he knows that he is loved and be told that he is loved.God in his grace and mercy will watch over this growing child when we ask Him to.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
good day to you thunderbala, As per your question, for me, mother is 100% important for a child. Without the mother, nobody can give a child a 100% attention. Only mothers can do that. Though in some aspect, it can be given by a father, but, it is not a 100%.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
20 Feb 10
hi,yes it is very unluck that child loses mother at very early age.Mother and father are important in a family .children get balanced with both.Both are important.No one more than a mom does know about her child.It is very sad for those unlucky children.
• United States
21 Feb 10
Parents are very important in the life of a child, because children needs to form healthy attachment, early in their life, and this is going to be the bases of how the child is going to have healthy relationships when he/she grow up. I am so sorry to hear what happened to your sister, you and your family should be grieving. But this baby needs a whole support system from your family, from every single member of the family because this is going to determine his emotional health in the future.
• India
20 Feb 10
a mom is very imporatnt for a child . i feel very sorry for your sister . i pray that it should not happen to any one in this world . i have seen my friend suffering from the loss of his mother when we were at the age of 10 . its a very sad thing to happen . i think a mother is very important to a child since she takes care for the baby feeds it and takes care of it . i dont think that a paid nurse can do the same thing as a mother takes care of his children .
• India
20 Feb 10
Hi frndz, mother is of utmost importance to us.Her pious attitude not only gives us immense strength but also show us the right path to move forward in life and conquer all the odds of life. I love my mother very much.
• India
20 Feb 10
Hi frndz, i think mother is of utmost importance to us. Her pious attitude not only give us immense strength but also show us the right path to move forward in life and conquer all the odds of life. I love my mother very much.
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
there's a bridge to every stream like hope to every dream there's a plan that's never sure like a love that is so pure there's love to every one just like a mother to a son... =)
@elly1384 (352)
• Bulgaria
20 Feb 10
the mother is teacher and care and courage in the child`s life and i think that my way of life is joined to my child`s one and my care and behaviour is so much important
@Rvd007 (95)
• India
20 Feb 10
Mother is first Teacher of a child she teaches us everything to her and on mother milk child get survive so mom is only need t start stage after at end stage till he get adult mother gives moral and mental support to his child so then also mom is Important
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 10
I agree with you, thunderbala. children will not be balance if they are raised without mother. cos mother is a person who gives love, attention, education and lessons of living to their children. so without a mother a child will be fragile and loose his/her warm inside her/his heart..