How will you react if a stranger asks you for a petty cash, because he don't ..?
By phoenix8606
@phoenix8606 (4942)
February 20, 2010 9:44am CST
Hi MyLotters! I have been in this situation many times and know, I want to ask you about it, so that I can see do you really like to help others and are you a compassionate person. So my question is: " How will you react if a stranger on the bus/railway station asks you for a petty cash, because he don't have enough to buy a ticket to go home? Will you give him or you will reject him? Hope the most of us, will help him
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@Canellita (12029)
• United States
21 Feb 10
There are so many people hustling on the streets pretending to be in need that you have to be careful. Some are just panhandling and some may be trying to rob you. If you feel comfortable and you have the change it's no harm in giving it to them, even if they are not telling the truth.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Feb 10
yes, there are many lairs out there, but it is good to help others when they need it, even if they are not telling the truth
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Feb 10
yes, I also hope if I be in the same situation, that someone will help me, and that's why many of us prefer to help those people!
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
23 Oct 11
In these days. There are many stupid people. So, if there is a stranger come to me and ask for a help need to investigate first if he/she really need the help...
Because I experience something like this before. There is a strange come into our home and ask for a help and I gave some to the person who ask for help...but I see the guy in one of the place where people gamble...
Now, I am very careful from people who ask help for money or something. I just make sure now that the money that I give to them will be for good things...
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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25 Oct 11
well, investigating is something that could be really good, but sometimes people don't have time enough to do that and they have to decide to give them what they beg for or not :)
@cloud31 (5809)
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20 Feb 10
Well yah i will help, i've been in so many cases like this and if ever that they just want to cheat well its their burden,the God of fear is there looking at his people doing and his fair enough to make all things and situation justified.
First i will not asked of anything about the stranger is it the story is real i will not make any investigation about what his going to do with the money he asked.For me its a lie or maybe true..I just make a words for myself "share the blessings you have"the more you give it will double in return.(smile)
Happy Lotting my friend! God bless!
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@cloud31 (5809)
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20 Feb 10
Well if the same person will approach me again, i will make a word to him /her saying "do you want to go home with me and stay".Lol..Well i think we know exactly the best thing to do in this situation.One incidents is normal,twice is a doubt and 3 is lie.Wisdom is needed to have this situation will not occur to individual repeatedly.Help others is good after all but opened eyes is for people who can see and blind eyes is for people who seems want to be cheated repeatedly.
Nice post.Happy Lotting!
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Feb 10
you got it! thank you and happy lotting to you to!
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Feb 10
Wow, how right you are. We must always help the others, because it will returns to us someday, sooner or later. I have always helped that people and have never asked them is it true or not, because i really don't care!
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Feb 10
yeah, you are right- we will get some extra point for the heaven express And we will not grow poor, if we give him/her some petty cash
@mysticmaggie (2498)
• United States
21 Feb 10
Gee, I didn't know God had a point system! I thought Jesus paid for our sins so we wouldn't need such a thing.
@timetravel (1425)
• United States
11 Nov 11
This is very common in my city - Baltimore. The people are scammers - they hit up everyone with the same thing. They just need "a quarter" to get on the bus. If one hundred people give this guy a quarter, he's got twenty five dollars right there. With all the people going by in our city, guaranteed he's getting at least twenty five bucks a day, if not more, just because he "needs" to get on the bus. Most likely he's got a monthly pass that cost him nothing because he got it through a government assistance program.
These people don't need it. The ONLY exception would be if someone actually gets on a bus before or after me, and finds him or herself a dime or nickle short. I've pitched in then.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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11 Nov 11
yeah, here in London is the same- they just stop you and ask if you can help with 20p or 50p, because they need 2 pounds to buy a ticket for the bus.
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@timetravel (1425)
• United States
11 Nov 11
and you notice it's always a small amount - never the whole thing. most people do have those small amounts handy.
@verabear (796)
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
I'm afraid I'd probably reject the person. Out of fear though and not because I just refuse to help! Also sometimes there are people who only say this to make a quick buck, but don't really use the money for fare but would instead move on to the next person. If it was in an MRT (train) station and they'd let me buy the ticket for them i'd probably be more trusting.
But you know what, this is embarrassing, but I have had to do this once in my life. I was in college and had to take a jeepney to my next class (this is the local mode of transportation and I had a big university with buildings all over the place) so I got on and then realized that my wallet was missing! I wasn't comfortable to just sneak out and not pay the driver at all so I asked the girl right next to me if she would mind paying my fare! It's not a big amount but it was still embarrassing! I didn't even know her and we didn't exchange numbers or anything so I could pay her back.
I did get to my class though, worried because I had absolutely no money on me anymore. Good thing though is that as soon as the class was over, the lady supervisor from the canteen where my friends and I were hanging out just before the class was waiting outside my classroom with my wallet! She had seen my ID inside the wallet and checked my class schedule with the college secretary and personally took the wallet to me. She was an angel! I'm just glad it was the cleaning staff who found it and that they did the right thing.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Feb 10
Hi! Yes, it is really better not to give him/her the money and go and buy that what he/she wants, so that you can be sure, you gave your money for the right purpose. And I also think all we have been in situations like this at least once in our life and that can be as a proof to us, that there are not only cheaters on the streets and there are also people indeed
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
hello dear,
This happens to me,many times.
Mostly,some coins...and,those people were not asking directly,but i offered.
If,a student pretend to be searching for some penny(coins),and,looking a little bit reddish(becoz of shame/shy)i secretly offered a fare for her.
But i had this uncommon experience when i renew my passport.
I was on queue for the pay window,when a young guy approaches me,asking me to lend him money to pay for the passport,coz,according to him he doesn't know that,it has to be paid right at that moment.
He even tried to give his watch for assurance that he will pay me back the money once we were outside the building,coz,his dad is waiting for him outside.
(here in our country,company is not allowed to enter or go with the applicant,so,this guy is all alone inside the building)
He's looking very shy and even teary eyed,he cannot leave the queue,for he badly needed his passport for some travelling.
If he leaves the queue...he will surely be scheduled for next week again.
So,i decided to give him the money he needs...in short,he had it paid without any pawned material.
And,when we go to the next proceedings(for final interview)we didn't see each other.
I never thought or expect my money to be paid anymore..i just think that,i lost that money already.
But...when i'm done and about to go home,and soon as i reach the building's gate,the young guy called me.
I was surprised...true to his words,he is waiting for me outside with his dad and sister.
I had my money back...and at the same time,i gain friends...our family were good friends at this moment.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
certainly,and,if,i am also on his shoe,maybe,i will gather up courage to ask a stranger to lend me the money that i need.
there is nothing wrong to try...if someone trusted me,i would be very thankful,if no one will trust me(sad)then,maybe i will asks the lady from the window(pay window)to pay my passport,and i will also pawn any of my things(also my wrist watch if badly needed to do so)
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Feb 10
hello! A very long response, i like t :) yes, that's what i am talking about-some coins, not some big cash :) A very nice story, and I hope there are more people like this guy, because they make the world a better place for living and show us that there are still good people among us
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
20 Feb 10
It depends but normally, I guess I will reject him if he appears to be just using that as an excuse. There was an old man who always loiters around my house nearby bus stop and asked people for money. He doesn't goes around asking for everyone to give him money though. But I don't know if he has any selection criteria but he asked for people to give him money after an interval of a few mins.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Feb 10
yes, there are many people lying about that they need the money for a ticket, so that's why as i have already told, we better go with them to the booking-office and see with our own eyes how they buy a ticket
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Feb 10
Yeah, only if you are an Olympic runner you can prefer walk home :) As I see the most of us are helping people
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
17 Nov 11
I probably won't do it now, since I learn my lesson well. A year ago, while my friends and I get out of the restaurant, a black dude came to me and ask for a couple of dollars for gasoline, since he lost his wallet. I lent him 3 dollars, and let him go. 2 weeks later, we came to the same restaurant, the same guy came to us for the same trick. Oh no, not this time anymore. Full of those scammers, and lazy people around.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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20 Nov 11
yeah, they're everywhere. People like them just don't like to earn some money the normal way.
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@richer (7)
• China
26 Mar 10
may be yes, may be not, it depends on the situation.
the thing is that you can not identify the real situation immediatly on the guy who ask petty from.
if ture, no problem give them, just a little change.
if not, of course, we can not make that happen.
you know what, cheater always has good performance in disguise and let you confuse easily.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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26 Mar 10
yes, we could never be sure if the person who is asking us for some pety cash is a cheater or not, but maybe we mmust just close our eye and give him/her the coins he wants, because we actually won't get richer or poorer with this petty cash, right?
@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
14 Aug 11
My, this has been going on here in our country. No, I won't give them money. I think this is just a trick by some underground organization or syndicate to earn money easily. Many such organized crime syndicates deploy such posers to get into the hearts of the people around and tickle their emotions to help and shell out money when in fact everything is really not true. Sorry to say this but I already lost my trust to such beggars and the like. I'd better be off donating money to charitable institutions instead than give the money directly to them.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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16 Aug 11
well, i think it's been going in every country so far it even happened to me today- couple of hours ago and I did the same thing as I was 100% sure that guy didn't need the money for what he said.
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@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
18 Aug 11
Yes, I would like to share too what my friend shared to me yesterday. She was stopped by a decent looking woman who was asking for some money. She told my friend that she was robbed and needs money to be able to go back home. My friend, being very helpful, gave the woman some money. After getting the money, the woman still insisted to ask for an additional amount. To that, my friend decline and walked away form her. After a week, my friend passed through the same street and saw the woman again making her acting performance to yet another possible victim. Since then, she never gave money even though she still pity some who would ask of her. You really never know if those person asking are true or not.
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@Cherizette (76)
• Guyana
19 Aug 11
It depends. Does he or she looks like they drink or smoke?
If so they can't get a crumb out of me.
But if it's a kid, I'll buy the ticket for them, I'm not giving my money to anyone.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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19 Aug 11
yeah, guess that giving them what they say they need is the best way- in that case buying them a ticket because we don't know what are they going to do with the money.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
21 Feb 10
I will more than likely buy what they are claiming they don't have the money for. I usually will not hand them money.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Feb 10
yes, it is really the better way to give them what they need!
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
22 Feb 10
When I was young and naive and sometimes I am still naive, yes I used to fall for people who ask for petty cash because they don't have money to get the bus. Then one of my neighbours told me that the same thing happened to her, where a particular woman was asking a lot of people for petty cash so that she can play bingo, lotto and other games. From that day onward I just bring up an excuse that I dont have cash on me.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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22 Feb 10
Hi! well, we all have our points of view and many of us reject those people, because they have mostly faced up people, who are asking for some money and then they go and buy something completely different from it! so that's why I grant your answer
@mysticmaggie (2498)
• United States
21 Feb 10
Since this is one of the most well known scams being perpetuated on people, I would turn him down without a thought.
What I have done in the past is tell him I won't just give him the money, but I will offer him hard work to earn the money. It's amazing how fast he turns to the next sucker coming down the street.
If I needed a ticket home, I would work for it, no matter what the reason - urgent or not. That's how I was brought up. Begging wasn't on my folks list of things for their children to do. And I've made certain it isn't on my children's list either. We help each other if needed, but don't go outside the family to take other folk's hard earned money.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Feb 10
well, you are a man with honor and I like it! There are really not many people like you and I admit you
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@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
i had that incident many times, at first i give some money but i realize that everyday i always saw the same lady asking for money, their excuses was they lost and their wallet was stolen, some says they just come from the province and someone took their belongings and etc and that they need money to go home. i heard it many times from different people from kids to adult even to those who have baby with them. so the next time i just ignore them and told them i only have enough money fro my own too.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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25 Mar 10
hell0! yeah, we must be really very careful with these people, because many of them are cheaters, and when you have seen it that this woman is the same every day, then you should not give her any money more. but sometimes we must just give to feel better!
@deepasubramani (1074)
• India
21 Feb 10
Hi Phoenix,
Depending upon the situations i am seeing i will help and act accordingly. If they have traveling obviously they will be having cash but due to some reasons they would have lost the money or somebody would have stolen the money or might be for any other reason they require based on those if its genuine fact then i help them giving the cash how much i can. Once when we were traveling in a bus back from a temple had lost money in the bus and they did not have anything not a single pie and my father helped them.
Have a great day.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Feb 10
yes, it can happen everything to any of us, and we are not insure, that it will not happen to us. And I also feel very good when I get home and know that I have helped someone , who needs help
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@joseline0568 (355)
• Philippines
21 Feb 10
There are lots of these here - decent looking people telling total strangers to give some money to be able to go home - sometimes with children in tow. They normally claim that their money were stolen.
I rather reject them because I know they are not telling the truth - I am a compassionate person but there are limits.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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21 Feb 10
yes, every one has its limits by being compassionate, and I truly understand you
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