Is it OK to be back with your EX?

Life is full of never ending possibilities. People will always have their says whether it is okay or not. I believe that the real question here is that whether you are ready to commit with him again if ever he asks you to be with him again or not. You maybe asking this question now but I think you already know the answer but afraid to put it in action because you are not sure of the end result. I believe that we all have the right to be happy so whatever happens may the end result be good or bad, at least you can tell yourself that what you did made you feel good. Besides, when wee are done eating something, it doesn't necessarily mean we can't buy the same thing anymore. :P

actually right now, my ex wants me back. i cn accept him as i also love him besides he proved to me that he really feel sorry about what happened and i know that he loves me too. but i know i cant accept him coz im pregnant with my current bf though the guy left me without a words. and i dont know id my ex will going to accept me if he found out that i m pregnant.

I think you can answer it by your self. If the love is still there, why not. However, it should be on the next level so you wont end up breaking again. You should have a serious talk before being on a relationship with him or her. Learn to understand and forgive the things that happened in the past. On my part, I have this ex gf who until now my heart belongs. I'm also thinking of the posibility for us to be together but I think twice since I dont want to hurt my self again in the end if our relationship didn't work.

Maybe!, I don't know about you but for me Its not OK to get back with my ex once again because if I were to get back with my Ex girlfriend the situation that happened before we break up will once again repeat the whole situations and problems that occurred when we were still together at that time, we might fight again or have some problems again and I don't like it. Its all up to you my friend if you really love your ex girlfriend you might as well go back to her again because you are happy with her than with the other girls that your going out with, follow your heart and mind what is telling you make sure you'll think it before you decide to go back with your ex. : )

Dont b confused jus sit sit with ur ex and ask him whethre he really loves u r nt and u also please give it thought and jus dont break up relationship with ur present boyfriend.So its k if u get back 2 yr ex bt make sure tat tis time u people dont break up again.

great discussion. i think all of of us has a freedom to love and to be loved... go on on what you think is ryt and will make you happy... love is lovlier the 2nd tym around...???? not so sure!!!!

I would first think about the reasons that you broke up in the first place. Is the problem still there? If it is you might want to consider that. I know people that have gotten back with their ex and the same problems that broke them up before start coming back. If you do I think counseling might be a good idea before you start getting serious with him again.

as long as both of you are not currently in a relationship, yes you may see each other as often as you want, but if any of you is committed, even as "friends" you should not go out together and sort of "date" each other because the feeling you don't want to have when you cheat your partner will be the same as the feeling of the current partner of your ex. That is very sad and painful, I know you know what I mean..

wow. I would say that you all need to break up. Then give yourself a MONTH to process your feelings. Don't talk or Face book or anything for a month. Then start investigating your feelings for each other and why you have them. Are those feelings based on anything lasting? Why did you break up? There is a book about 100 questions to ask before you say "I DO". I would write quite a few down and go through them if you can't find the book. Don't repeat mistakes.

The main question there for me about your situation is "Would your love for your EX be still the same at present"? that will answer your question. Since, both of you tried to be yourselves after the break up. It is more of a realization for both of you if presently, you are still in love with each other even things had changed. It must not be a condition of once someone has ended a present relationship will mean an assurance that he do love you because it is a condition. Which supposedly when a person is in love, should not give conditions but hopes for a better relationship especially when you want to work things out again this time. It is your own choice if you will accept the proposal to give love the second time around. The questions there is are you ready to start it again and able to forget the past bad things that had happened. If yes, then you are free to go back again to him as long you are happy and contented with him. but, if in your heart, there are doubts about entering again a relationship with him, then this is the time to think it wisely about your plans in life. For me, if my Ex is worth having again. I will not doubt things but I will tell him honestly what I feel so that whenever we go things together again. It will be much better this time than before we had.

In my opinion if it's done it's done, past is past. You shouldn't longer live or go back what's in the past unless you let it happen or giving a reason to happen again and again. And it's up to you if you make friends with him/her, it's all up to you even I give my opinion or suggestion what you're going to do.

I think you need some time alone, you may not be thinking straight because you are hurt because your current boyfriend cheats on you, this a profound hurt for any person, at those moments we don't think with our right mind, and we can make bad decisions, you need to spend some time alone and really think what do you want, it is evident that you have some unresolved issues with your Ex, first think what were the things that let you and your ex to broke up, think if he has change, think if he hasn't if you would be able to live with that.

if you feel that you still love him why not.

It sounds like you're both drawn to each other and you have the opportunity. Do you think the same problems you faced before will happen again? If not, then go for it. But tread carefully - have you changed that much since you broke up? Are you just getting back together for nostalgia reasons?

How did you forget the reason for your previous break with your ex?Only if there was a valid reason,you would have broken the relationship.If that can be repaired now,you can have him again.Otherwise,try to live a life without any boyfriend for the time being and concentrate on your works.

i think as early as now, you should break up with your current lover because it'll definitely be unfair on his/her to expect that you feel the same way for him/her. you shouldn't forget the reason why both of you decided to break up because it's possible that when both of you decided to be lovers again, you'll end up breaking each others' heart again because of a same mistake.

theres nothing wrong of giving your ex a second chance specially if they have a valid reason why they need to go. in my ex part, he was able to give out reason why and he even showed how sorry he was and i really can see it. and so right now im thankful to have him as he really showed how he love and care for me and so why not to give him a second chance.

Its not impossible to be in good terms with your ex again for the feelings is always there just dormant inside our heart & just waiting to be activated again. So if you can accept him back to be your lover & willing to undergo the same heartache at different version then its not impossible to be together again as long as you are happy being with him.