i do need your opinions. will you accept this kind of man as your boyfriend?

well.. you seem to be in real temptation.. only way to get rid of it is to give into it.. that way, you wouldn't have to sit wondering whether it would have somehow changed your life if you had decided to go with this man.. even if he just uses you and throws you away, you would have learned one of the most valuable lessons in life: "we don't learn from seeing others mistakes, we have to do it ourselves.."

Hi crazyenglish! Are you sure he is playboy? He might be handsome and many girls would be falling from him but that is not necessarily means that he is already "playboy"... As long as he is not jumping from woman to other women and don't take advantage to those girls who are roaming around him... Anyways, I don't know the real him and of course you can tell if he really is like that or not crazyenglish. I think you better trust your instinct crazyenglish. If you think and feel that he is not serious on you and just want to play around... then I suggest that you try your best to avoid him. I know that it is kinda hard especially if we are also attracted to the guy. But remeber, if you entertain him still, you are like allowing yourself from falling on him and eventually get hurt. Actually there are two possiblities: he'll fall inlove with you too or 2. You will end up crying and regretting that you don't stop what you're feeling right now. What do you think is more possible result?

Why are you called Crazyenglish when you hail from Singapore? all the best urban

If you are satisfied to be number one, where there is number two and number three, or if you like to be included in his collection then go for him. But if you want to be only one, then choose a faithful guy. Since a handsome like him is chasing you, it means you are pretty, you have a special appeal to guys. You can choose a guy, just be careful, and choose the right one. Since you are already looking for someone to marry, then choose someone who is faithful and serious lover. The key is to not fall easily. Let them prove their love to you. They should be patient and always wanted to serve you. Choose wisely! Good luck! Happy myLotting!

hi crazy english, for me If I am on your shoe, I would think for a long term need. YOu know for yourself that the man that have been chasing you wanted only to get you not to marry you. But who knows he will change for you :) Might be he is so in love with you and he will marry you and be faithful. You just said you cant refuse him, use your mind above your hurt. You might get hurt if you also show to him that you really want him Make him look for you, make him court you chase you first..

well say no to him rememeber beauty doesnt last forever but stuff that lasts is good heart so beleive in this n say him NOOOOOOOOOOOO

It depends what you want from your life. If its fun and adventure is one thing. If you want a stable relationship he does not seem to be the likely candidate to fill in that position. Use your mind not your heart in such situations.

It sounds like you might be prejudging him. How well do you know him? For all you know he might want the same things that you do. Don't push him away until you know his character a little bit better. He might want o be married and has the potential to be a relaible husband.

In my opinion regarding your situation, better choose your real plans about your wants in life that will stay for long time than gamble yourself to someone who will never give you any assurance at all but for the meantime. IT is hard to let go of yourself the feeling of attachment and affection from a guy whom you have seen good looks and many chases him. But, if this guy in your inner knowledge is one who wanted to just play with you and putting his limits in a boyfriend guy type, would you think if you allow him in his own conditions would be fair for you as a woman who has her own dreams for a lifetime partner. On the other hand, It is very hard for you to resist that kind of guy. Especially if a playboy one. You will have to make more gambles and the possibility of winning his heart that will meet your dream is by chances. Unless, he had learned his lessons well and it was you who made him realized that. I cannot blame if you cannot control yourself. Especially if the affection and physical attraction is strong. The only thing I can suggest about your concern is, pursue your dreams in looking for an ideal partner and control yourself in this playboy guy by totally getting rid of him. You have to look for some divert options like getting acquainted with friends, peers or any that would catch your interest. You can refuse the guy if you decided that your relationship with him will never be permanent at all no matter how you do everything for him. But, if this guy had changed and was able to realize your his partner for real. Then, refusing this guy totally is not needed but to give enough time for both of you to get to know each other and forget the past mistakes he had done then Start a new life for both of you. Remember that, Love can be not perfect. It bring you hope or despair. But, if you made right choices for your life. Wherever you may be, Love will always come in your time and the way you dreamed having it. We make our choices for our life. As long it will make you happy and contented.

You should really stay away from him. No matter how hard it is. Once you have played his little game, you will be alone again. It is not worth getting hurt by someone like that. TATA.

You saw this man and if go with him, may be next day you might see another man much more handsome than the earlier one. So this is life and you cannot say anyone being the best. I would suggest you to concentrate on long term relations if you want to get married soon. Temporary relation will not have much for you, its gone after few meetings when he is away you will realize that it was a mistake. just a personnel opinion/suggestion.

If know that you want a husband and a family, this is not the right guy for you, it is natural that being him so handsome you feel attracted to him, but you have to think with a cold head, guys like this most of the time don't change, there are exceptions, but they are very rare, if I would be you, I would try to cut all sort of contact with him, because if you do it, then the temptation won't be there all the time, if this doesn't work, tell him that you know that he is not looking for married and you do, so nothing between the two of you will work.

well if it was me i would indulge since i like him in some way but afraid that he'll just ditch me after getting what he wants. so i will just play with him for a while so i could really know him if he can be a family guy, but of course don't hsve s_x with him. and every time he insists i will just refuse him repeatedly and if he gets angry because of this then i know that he will not be the right man for being so childish and immature and break it off then, I'll definitely miss having a handsome wealthy boyfriend but at least i had a chance to experience it without giving up my chastity..

Do you have any real feelings with him? Would he make you emotionally happy? It seems like you want security, and he has financial security, but from what you said, it doesn't seem like he has the emotional security you want.

do you really know that he is a play boy?then if you don't want him in real life but still your heart longs for him,have him as your dream boy.Enjoy his thoughts in dreams and even live with him intimately in your fantasy world.You can easily neglect him in the real world.And once you get your lovable husband,this imaginary world will vanish.

It is difficult to refuse a man who is handsome and rich. But, every girl needs a to make a stable and happy family and that is the reason behind finding a lover. So, you should first talk to the man and find out his intention. He is handsome and rich don't mean that he won't make a good family with you. Know his true intetion, and don't go for it if you find out that he preferst to take the relationship for time pass.

Handsome and rich is not the fault for him and it doesn't mean that he is a bad boy.I think you love him and maybe you can get a try with him. Yeah,you could talk with him first to know his attitude to marriage and others.But if you keep up your mind to refuse him, you can't regret,otherwise,it would be very painful for you.

nah uh! if i were in your place, i would not fall for him. since you want a reliable husband, better find another much worthy for your love. if you fall for him, in the end, you'll be the one who'll suffer. you just cant trust a person like that especially who has looks and riches.

You should refuse him. You can control yourself and refrain from thinking him by focusing on other things. Maybe going to a mall with your girl friends. Try to hangout with others to remove your focus to him.

I can see you are heading for troubled times. If you go for him, you will only hurt yourself. He is like a sweet candy; if you take a bite, it would earn you a cavity and prolonged sessions with dentist. I can see he simply infatuates you. You do not love him but his looks and his wealth is luring you into falling in relationship with him. Just play hard to get. Think with your head, rather than your heart. Maybe one day you will be able to make yourself irresistible to him and he would want you and only you and nobody else. Then you can eat your cake and have it as well.