What are the advantages in marrying an older man?
By p3ks626
@p3ks626 (6538)
Philippines
February 22, 2010 3:37am CST
I saw a lot of women here in my country who marry men way older than they are. I think they are in love and that's a good thing. I was thinking that there could be a lot of advantages in doing so. Do you think there are a advantages? If so, what are they? It could be a lot because there are really a lot of women who are doing the same thing. What do you think?
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10 responses
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
for me, there a lot of advantages in marrying an older man because guys literally mature later than the girls. in marriage, the head of the family is the husband, it means that decision making usually come from him, how can a younger man do that when generally, they mature late. older men are also responsible and loving, they are mostly family oriented as they are past the stage of their life when all they want to do is to have fun. and as the man grow older, it means that he have prepared financial stability for his family which is one of the most important thing in marriage.
@pgr1806 (59)
• Iran
22 Feb 10
hai there. in my country there a lot women married with older man,and i think its a trend for women nowadays. i dont see what the advantages in marrying an older man but its seem like the old man had more experient than young man,thats what i think.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
Hi there friend there are lots of advantages if a woman will marry an older man. The first thing is older man is responsible enough to handle family issues. If the man is older than his partner it will be easy for the couple to establish their family. However in some cases they tend to fight because they have different interest in life. The older partner will likely have more life experiences; thereby, giving your relationship a greater richness.The younger partner brings exuberance for life and love that infects those around them. Marrying a man just because of money could just make your life lonely. Yes you have the richess you are experiencing the wealth of this world but you are not truly happy because you are just fooling yourself. Money can't buy happiness, marrying someone is so easy to do but maintaining the marriage it self is really cmplicated. It is never wise to enter into any relationship with the expectation that it will be easy. There will always be difficult times, and perhaps a time when one may want to leave. Remembering the reasons you fell in love, why you wanted to marry and recognizing the differences and challenges immediately will help to ensure the longevity of your relationship.
@libramie (562)
• Philippines
22 Feb 10
In every ways of relationship have advantages or disadvantages arise. My opinion is if you really in love to each other even in a big gap of age can try to considerate all things and can made through open communication, relationship will runs smoothly.
@cloud31 (5809)
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22 Feb 10
Mature and caring most older man are responsible than younger individual, I even prefer an older man for marriage, i want to be treated like a BABY lol..And most of all i want to pampered by love and understanding I think older more likely to be understanding because he will consider the age gap between me and him..Lol..
Anyway i can see most cases like this and i think marry and older man is quiet normal, i prefer man 5-8 years older than I.
Happy Lotting p3ks...God bless!
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@Nirishasol (879)
• India
22 Feb 10
Yes now-a-days it become fashion that women are getting married with old man if that man is rich then there is advantage because after married he will be the one and only owner of the property my dear i also hoping that i will also marry with the old man only.HaHaHa.....
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
23 Feb 10
I am 28, and my husband is almost 64. For one thing, women mature a lot faster than men, so I wanted to find someone who thinks on my level, not some young guy who still has some growing up to do.
Also my husband is too old for military service. He already did his military duty (he is an American who fought in Viet Nam) so I don't have to worry about losing him to a military conflict.
also, he has had a lot of experience in life, and we have a lot to talk about. He's a genius, and has all kinds of degrees. He has an amazing amount of education.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Feb 10
if the man is way older than you are, i can think of 1 major advantage - he would be dying earlier than you. :) he he kidding aside, if you are marrying an older man, make sure that, that man is of course older - or mature already. you would be surprised as to how many 'older" guys out there that acts old but thinks like a 6 year old kid. ha and most of them are just getting older physically and not mentally and not emotionally.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
27 Feb 10
Well I believe there is only one reason to marry and that is for love, but I also believe that a wise woman never marries a man who is unstable no matter how much she loves hims. I think mostly older men have stability. They are usually already firmly in to the careers and they can provide a decent life for a young woman. Plus they ar usually more mature and have gotten past all the immature things that men go through so if you marry an older man you will probably have less drama. Some woman may like them because they may be father figures that they never had.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
25 Feb 10
i will also like to marry an older man even 10 years older than me as long as his not that old. i find them very matured enough to handle a family of their own and be very responsible enough since they already have experiences. and aside for that, they already have a of earnings than those who are just started to enjoy their life.