Big deal or no big deal? How would you handle this...

Well, if you are going to get uptight because of such a silly thing, you might as well just give-up the married life! Of course, if the male does not give you that much attention (in this case, the webcam girl is getting more attention than you) then that is a problem. Only if he is not satisfieng you, than you must confront him. Other than that, if the guy gives you love and care and respect, let him have his ways, he is doing his part as the husband and you shouldnt ruin that cuz maybe if you confront him, youll get in a fight and nobody wants that, right?

Hi, cherryann. If he is watching the woman just too much, then I would think that he may have the "hots" for her. And he may want to get with her, if you know what I mean. I would feel very uncomfortable if my husband would be paying more attention to her than he would with me. That is disrespectful on his part, because he has a wife at home that he should be satisfied with.

..hi.. for me, that's not normal.. If that is my case, I'd talk to my husband and confront him personally why he did that.. I know that men are easily attracted to sexy women or ladies and staring at them for a while is normal for me.. but staring that long is not in any way normal.. something is wrong.. that's not just a no big deal for me.. That's one big deal that needs a lot of talking and confrontation.. I'm not a type of a nagger wife but when I know that it is my right to assert myself, I'll definitely do that..