do you believe in love at first sight ?

India
February 22, 2010 11:53am CST
many people fall in love at their first sight . i have seen many and i have also been such a person . do you believe in love at first sight ? i dont believe in love at first sight . i think its just a infactuation and dont think its love . do you believe it ?
16 responses
• United States
25 Feb 10
I'm not really sure about LOVE at first sight. I think it's more of an attraction first, the feeling of wanting to know the person. Then after that, there comes love.
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 10
I believe that love comes from close relationship, understanding of each other and being able to accept everything the partner has and hasnot. Love at the first sight is totally wrong and not applicable for me. It's not called love but more to be Passion. We like the first appearance of the person. We like the smell and everything outside. Yet love doesnot deal with outside but more to the inside. while passion deals more to the outside than inside
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
it is not love,it is just an attraction. you could never tell that you love a person not until you are willing to know her better.if you don't know yet the things that makes her laugh and cry, then what you have is just a physical attraction which could led to love if developed.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
23 Feb 10
Hello there. We do have different views towards this. It's also base on persons experience. Before i was laughing and making fun of this statement and told my friends it's impossible. But can't deny the fact that I'm also one of those people who claimed that they are also victims of "love at first sight" Yes, i fell inlove when i first saw partner. I don't know and can't tell if love is the right term. Maybe i was physically attracted and later on that feeling of likeness developed to love. I believed that all things undergo a process... even the "instants". Either it's love at first site or not what's important is there's LOVE.
@sathishss (274)
• India
23 Feb 10
hai dilip. yes even love as no eyes, i strongly believe this. keep love.
@Lata_45 (217)
• India
23 Feb 10
well i cant say yes or no as love can happen any where with anyone at any time but still sometimes we start falling for some one and soometime we dont have any reson to fall in love so this is something that cant be answer as love is love it is feelings which actually doesnt needs reason to be in
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
i do believe in love at first sight. although, i haven't experienced such thing, i still think that it could happen. there's lots of things in this world we can't explain. you can connect with a person at just first sight, and it feels like you've known that person before... or have this strong attraction with another person without knowing what really draws that person to you. i guess love at first sight feels like you've met a person that you simply know is right for you... no harm in believing it... i guess i'm just a hopeless romantic haha ^^
@Bearballew (1148)
• United States
22 Feb 10
Not sure about LOVE at first site. How can you absolutely trust with all your heart someone you've never spoken to? I do believe in "I'd LOVE to know that person!" at first site!!
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
I think it's not love but attraction, the first thing that happens is attraction and then after that we fall in love. However based on some research some people claim that it happened to them and and we can't question that. It happens when we suddenly meet his/her eyes and tell our self “It is He/She!”. Psychologists say that love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. So it means that it would always depends upon us and the reason why we fall inlove is because of the state of our mind. In some situations we can't even tell or notice those charming eyes in another they can make a lasting impression on us. But if you suddenly fall in love with quiet unknown person it means that that person has the qualities and traits that you were looking for.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
Believing in the concept that " LOVE at the first sight" for me is partly Yes and NOT. The beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It means it depends on the person who see it if love at first sight or not. There are many reasons why people do believe love at first sight. It is the matter how they view it. Either it is infatuated or physical or whatever attraction, plus other feelings in him, still the same and most commonly used the word LOVE because the feeling they got is intensely different and cannot be explained deeply. IF it is true about love at the first sight, then does it mean true that when an infant are able to see already the first time, means, Love at first sight? Of course not, because, this is his innocence to what he see already, the colors, people around him. But, not love at the first sight because this infant does not able to know what love and use his senses like any teen,or mature person. So, Love can be at first sight depending on the Eye seeing it and the View he has in mind together with his emotions and totality as a person. Then he can conclude for real.
@ltruong (128)
• Australia
23 Feb 10
No I don't. But I do believe that you can feel a special connection and that particular relationship may be going much faster than any you've ever had before. That happened to me once. And I still love that guy very much even though we are not together anymore
@anc457 (186)
• Thailand
23 Feb 10
yes i believe, its a reality. experience is the best proof though :-)
@mudeshu (31)
• China
23 Feb 10
I believe it when it comes in the movie.
• India
23 Feb 10
Yes, I believe
• India
22 Feb 10
Yes i do so how about you i would like to know. Its something to which your haeart responds like a fatal attraction only but sometimes of such a vibe is felt that is very hard to explain which no one has any clue of so.
• India
22 Feb 10
i strongly belive in love at first sight..