will you care how your best friend spend her hard earn money?

Hey careguarden! That is something that I feel is never your business! I would never tell my friend how to spend her money! Especially if she was working! It is her business how she spends her money and not mine! I do have a girlfriend that was going to the gambling casino for awhile because it was new and had just opened up where we live and she started to go kind of regularly! But, as concerned as I was it wasn't my business to say anything to her because it was her money! That is something that you just never get into with a friend!

I have a friend who spends a lot of money on something that I find a little bizarre. He buys those things online, and he often uses foreign shopping sites which makes it pretty expensive. Personally I would never spend so much money on the things that my friend buys, but I think that it is his own choice how how spends his money. In my opinion the things are bizarre and a waste of money, but that doesn't mean that they are waste of money to him, and I know that he really enjoys the things that he buys.

I love my best friend but could care less what she buys with her hard earned money! :) She is the one that has to work everyday for it and as long as it does not directly affect me in any way I say let them do what they want. My best friend also knows that if she runs out of money she cant borrow mine! lol

Yes, i and my best friend is very close, since we get to know each other from childhood time. We learn and share secret among each other, so we are very close like sisters. Ever there is one time, where my best friend had bought a branded dress just for one-time wear to the party. I told her immediately that she had spend her money unwisely, because that dress she is not going to wear daily. She at first nearly misunderstood me. But, the next day, she met me and told me that, i had helped her save her hard earn money by telling her, my opinion. Luckily, the shop owner willing to refund back her money, so she bought a much cheaper dress which looks very nice too, to wear to the party.

Yes i would and i will say my piece if i dont like how she does it. I treat my bestfriend as my sister, and vice versa. So i know she wont mind it if i remind her sometimes. But we still have to be on our side of the fence, all we can offer is concern, but we should respect their decision and try to understand them and be there when they fall apart cause of their crazy ways.

maybe i will tell him/her to not waste too much money for something unimportant and if he/she does not want to hear it, tell him/her one more time, after that it is back to he/she decision, you already do your job as a good friend for her/him thanks before sincerely reborn is hard

As long as she is not asking me for money, I will keep my mouth shut and let her spend it the way she wants.

Its not my money, its hers and she is naturally free to spend it however she wants so no I wouldnt say anything...Just because something she buys is silly to me it must not be to her just like I'm sure some of my purchases are silly to some of my friends but they arent to me....HOWEVER IF she were spending money shopping and NOT taking care of the important things first like paying the bills etc then YES I would say something..Ultimately though its not my place or my decision.

hi care guarden, well, I really wouldn't feel it was my place or my business to say something to my best friend or anyone on how they spend their money. If they don't ask my advice then I feel it isn't my place to say anythintg. If it were really a problem with them and causing trouble in their life then I mite mention it but truthfully unless they are receptive for help then all advice will fall on deaf ears. As a friend the most I can do is be here if my friend needs a friend.

I think that it is your BFF's decision how and where to spend her money. You can offer an opinion but frankly if she chooses to stand on top of a building and throw her money off the side, it is her business to spend as she chooses.

yes i'll tell her my opinion especially if she's buying crap and useless things. that's what friends are for anyway... they're supposed to tell you that what you're doing is wrong.

its her money so its up to her on how she will use her money. although sometimes we cant really help that somehow there comes a time that we really feel so down and we even use the last money we have, so of course i will still going to tell her a piece of advise like to save some for emergency purposes. and its up to them if they will follow my advise or keep on spending their money, at least i give my share of advise as a friend.

Well I do care about my best friend a lot I always make sure that she is in no trouble. Still when me and my friend go shopping she can spend her money the way that she wants because she earned her money and it is soely hers. I love to spend my money on different things too and that's how me and my best friend see eye to eye. We respect each others decisions and that has made us closer.

I have a friend who loves to spend money. She cannot have fun if she doesn't spend money. Often she sneaks to the bank to get money that her husband doesn't know about, and the problem is now he is retired and only gets so much a month to live on. They were just making it for a long time, only because he paid the bills that were due for rent, electric, gas, car payment, etc. Even though she was a good customer of mine, I would not order stuff for her and tell her it didn't come in. Things I knew she needed she always got, but some things I thought maybe she can do without this time. I felt bad for her hubby because it is a major stressor not having enough money. Now, for the first time since she's been married she is beginning to be more frugal and is not cheating as much by going to the bank. I did not realize how much she orders from me, until she quit ordering Avon for awhile. My sales went down considerably. I do always try to make a point whenever we were out to mention how fun it is to just do such and such, and she would give me a pouty look because she really likes to shop! lol.

Yes i always care for my best friend.. that where he spend his hard money.. when i saw that he spend his money on any illegal way..then i suggest him. that it is not good to spend your money on it.. it is warn by your hard work.. so spend it on any good thing.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..

If she really is my best friend then yes I will care on how she spends her hard earned money. It is okay to splurge once in a while, buy things she really wanted even though in my opinion has no worth or no use. If she spends too much on something that is useless I would advise her but thats all I will do, advise and I cant do anything if she doesnt want to listen to my opinion (though I think she will, since im her best friend). It is so sad to see someone you care about work hard, get money, and waste it instead of saving or using it for more important stuff.

I would definitely share what I think. Although i wont impose on her to do things he/she ultimately would not want. I'd talk with my friend why she does those things, and if i see merit in her doing them, i would let her be. But if i see more bad than good, i'd definitely tell them my two cents. That's what friends are for, looking out for each other and i'd be gravely disappointed in myself if i didn't look out for my friends.